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met with a man online. said he was 22 and was recently tested for hiv 3 weeks ago, apparently neg.

I have hpv and had an outbreak near my rectum. he performed anal sex with condom on....when I turned around, the sheets had 3 big stains of blood. the entire day when I wiped, there was blood residue.

my question: if there was contact with his bare penis (which might've had precum) and my open wound , is this a possible exposure?
One would think the wound started as he tried to open my rectum, but I am concerned if before he was performing anal, if his bare penis came to contact with the blood wound

the condom was intact I believe....no open torns or anything visible

we stupidly used lotion as we had no lubricant.

your advice is appreciated
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Im just scared if my penis head went in for 2-3 seconds....so scared
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Move on, you  never had an exposure.
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My legs get sweaty for no reason....is this a symptom of ars?.....
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Ok
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Would his penis not have been covered by the condom still?

Also as I said I am not going to play "what if". And that is exactly what is going on, what if he did this or that...not a risk.
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Im saying when he pulled out his penis mightve come into contact with my rectum where wound was...he probably had precum...this poses no risk since its exposed to air???
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Protected sex is not a risk.
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So even tho his penis had xontact with wound that poses no risk?
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We don't play the "what if" game. You said you had protected sex...no risk.
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???
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Anyone??
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also,

I have a question about transmission....
if you insert your bare penis into a butt, will that produce transmission?
or will there need to be blood inside the butt?
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