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heart broken - - - back stabbed!!

Hey!! ,, am 21 yr old! i had unprotected sex with my ex gal(20 yrs) ,, on 4 feb 2012 ,,

and gradually showing all the symptoms of that of HIV so is she i heard,

night swets, weight loss, fever, weakness, diaherrea etc !

! the worst part is  after a month after we had sex, she just started ignoring me and never returned my calls and stuff!!

i heard from my friends she too is not keepin well! and also heard she is having physical contact with multile partners!! which is even more heart breaking!!

,, i had a hiv 1 and 2 anti body test just after 2 months of the Unprotected sex!! and tested negative!! - - but all these symptoms continues!!

wat am i to do!! am under immense depression!! the gal i wanted to end up with gave me and STD!! :((:(

should i take another test after 6 months for accurate results!! i not only lost ma gal ,, but also feel i might have been exposed to hiv! :(!
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186166 tn?1385259382
go re-read the first thing i told you above.
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THANK YOU!! U DID CALM ME DOWN FOR NOW,, BUT U THINK ON A SAFER SIDE I BETTER TAKE A RE TEST AT THE END OF 3RD MONTH ,, OR ITS CHILL!?
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186166 tn?1385259382
the window period is 3 MONTHS post exposure.  anyone who tells you differently is not hiv educated.

remember...having a M.D. after one's name doesn't mean they are educated and up to date regarding hiv.  it's kind of like going to a kidney doctor if you broke your arm.
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TO BRING MEEEEEeeeee BACK TOOO LIFE!!! :(:(:(
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and this is wat he had to say  - - -  test for hiv 1 & 2 anitbodies are nnot relaible teill 6 months called the window period!! so the tests must be repeated till 6 - 9months depending on different variable!!

and its likely to show positive!! in the 9th month tests!! even though 1 has tested negative at the 6th month!! is it?!>! :(:(: God i wanna kill myself if this is fukkin ture!!
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186166 tn?1385259382
a test at 2 months is HIGHLY unlikely to change at the 3 month mark when you get your conclusive result.

relax and expect at negative at 3 months.
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