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help me.. had a strange date first date!

I am sure you all heard similar questions but I just want closure or some answers to my question.
I went on a date with a girl online and after dinner she wanted to have sex. But since neither of us had a home to ourselves we decided on something else:

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I rubbed her P***Y or vagina not sure which word is appropriate here, with 3 fingers. I also tend to bite my fingers and bite my skin but I dont recall anything bleeding on my finger. Is there any risk for HIV, STD's if my her vaginal fluid entered my finger pores or nails as I do bite on my fingers?

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She performed oral on me in the car, I did cum in her mouth. It probably took 2-3 minutes, it was quick and uncomfortable as you can imagine sitting and driving. I don't know if she has HIV or STD's, it was dark, I am not sure if she had blood in her mouth of any kind or cuts, but I remember I bought her McDonalds earlier and she ate some of it. Can You get HIV or Stds from receiving oral and cumming in her mouth?
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370181 tn?1595629445
Vagina works for me, but we've heard them all.

You had no risk from HIV from fingering her vagina, hang-nails or not. If you had put your fingers in your mouth after fingering her, there could be risk for STD's.

You had NO RISK for HIV from the oral sex and do NOT need to test.......but you ARE at risk for other STD's and should test for those.

If you come up positive for any STD's you need to let her know. YOU may be the one who was infected and passed them to her.
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No HIV risk.
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