precum transmission

[ky5]

I had sex with a woman who is considerably older than myself. During foreplay **** bit my tongue causing it to bleed. Unbeknownst to me. I then performed oral sex on her. During vaginal sex I used a condom however it broke. I was probably inside her for no more than 3 minutes without the condom. I did not ejaculate. The next morning I saw that her sheet had a blotch of red on it. At that point I was far too nervous to ask if it was a fresh stain fearing the response.

Not long after (1 week) I had unprotected sex with another partner. I was inside unprotected for a grand total of 1 minute. I did not ejaculate inside this partner either.

My concern in this post is for the second partner. I did not think about the risk that I had experienced in the first encounter until the day after the second encounter. Looking back I was monumentally stupid. I feel absolutely sick to think that I put this partner at risk. Does anyone know the risk of precum to this second partner?

[ky5]

Thank you teak. I appreciate your posts.

[Teak]

Only if you test positive.

[ky5]

Yes sir I absolutely will. I am not going to have sex of any fashion until i get the results. However I already had unprotected once. If my test is negative could I still have passed it to that unprotected partner?

[Teak]

You use condoms until you receive your conclusive test result which is 3 months post exposure.

[ky5]

I am getting tested at three months. But can a person test negative after 3 months and still have passed the virus to other individuals during that period?

[Healthadvisory]

3 months is conclusive for hiv, however a negative test at 6 weeks is not likely to change.

[Teak]

You can test three months post your last unprotected sex to obtain a conclusive test.

[ky5]

If I test negative for hiv, is it possible that I still passed it on?

[NickOne7]

We do not do odds on this forum

[ky5]

i will test absolutely. with your extensive knowledge can you tell me what the odds are that I could have infected the second partner? I appreciate your post.

[Teak]

You put yourself at risk from unprotected vaginal sex and a condom failure. You can test three months post your last unprotected sex to obtain a conclusive test.