Hi,been a member for a short time,just getting the guts to post,like many people here i had a condom failure,with a csw,February 16 2014,about a month and a half later got a gland pop up in arm pit,last 3 or 4 days,chest pain in heart area,down dicep,about a month or so after that,strange rashes a few here and there,some go away and other's have stayed,strees has gotten overwhelmingly hard at times,on her profile it reads safe and clean,be smoking a pack a day and alcohol is the only thing thats keeping me calm,i have done nothing but cry,pray,drink and smoke ciggs for months now,is wats going on do to hiv,i no test is the only way to know,help