is testing needed? penetrattion without intention!

[alaf]

Hi, last week a girl came to my house for having sex. i was so scared of having unprotected sex so
i didn't intend to do it with her. she laid on her stomach with closed legs and i put my hard penis
between her legs near her vagina/anus. i rubbed hard for 30 seconds. i really did NOT intend to
penetrate her. but i am now scared if i penetrated her anus or vagina without knowing it. is it
possible to penetrate her anus accidentally without intention and without lubricants? should i test
for hiv? i also asked her and she told me there was no penetration, but can i trust her?

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[Teak]

Does she know about your fling? So you don't know if she has had any other exposures.

[alaf]

in fact i am worried if i give her some disease like hiv.

[alaf]

i know because she is my wife. we live together for some years.
teak please tell me if we can have unprotected sex regarding only my exposure which i described for you. i am so worried. so you say there is no risk?

[Teak]

Then you don't know her status.

[alaf]

i got tested but she did not. we haven't had any other risk before.

[Teak]

Have you and her tested together before having unprotected sex?

[alaf]

then why should we use a condom? this was the only risk we had had.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV and if you and your current partner haven't tested together then use a condom.

[alaf]

thank you teak, but my penis was unprotected between her thighs near her anus or wet vagina,
so can i have unprotedted sex with my current partner without fear of hiv?

[Teak]

Had you had penetrative sex you would have known.  You didn't have a risk and don't need testing.