Hi,
I have been reading this forum for about 3 months now and it's one the reasons I have been able to keep sane still but I need your guidance for my situation:
History: Conclusively HIV and STD negative before March 2021
1) Received unprotected BJ from CSW March 2021 - Had unprotected vaginal sex with my partner (Confirmed HIV negative) the same day and 2 days later
2) Received unprotected BJ from CSW Jan 2022
3) Protected vaginal sex with CSW March 2022
4) Received unprotected BJ from CSW May 2022
5) Naked frottage with CSW July 2022
6) I have received some handjobs in between but I know they are no risk
My major concern is unprotected BJ in March 2021 - I know experts say 0 risk in this. But just hypothetically, if I caught HIV from this incident could I have passed this on to my partner within 2 days ? Kindly answer this from the perspective if actually caught HIV from this incident since my partner conceived during this time. My partner took Roche ECLIA test (India) around 6 weeks from this incident and was negative for HIV, VDRL and STDs. Kindly indicate if there is enough viral load with 48-72 hours after new infection to pass it to someone. Also, can pregnancy suppress antibody response for HIV
Next major question is related to Frottage, I checked with the CSW, she says I didn't penetrate her. She was grinding on my naked penis till I got erection, then she flipped it towards my stomach and split the lips of her labia and she continued grinding till I ejaculated. I finally saw I ejaculated on her pubic hair but the griding was very close and it was 4-5 days before her period (since I asked her about blood). I have had a rash about 6 weeks from this incident on the neck after I wore a neck chain. I have also had burning sensation on tongue for couple of weeks, canker sores on tongue, sore throat, pain in teeth and muscle pain but no fever as such. I know the feeling of penetrating a vagina and I also felt that through the entire process there was close rubbing but no penetration (Sorry for the graphic description)
I am extremely tensed, smoking way more and very worried. Kindly guide and help on the 2 major concerns