You keep repeating your question. Is it going to make any difference if they respond to your question again for the third time? It doesn't seem to be helping you overcome your health anxiety. Repeatedly asking the same questions and expecting a different response is textbook health anxiety. I think it's high time you addressed that problem instead of wasting your time here with repeated non risks.
Your history shows that you have an unhealthy fear of herpes and HIV. I'd strongly recommend counseling if you haven't looked into it already. There's no reason to live with a high level of anxiety. Regarding HIV, let's make it clear and simple:
As an adult, the only risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
If you don't do either of those activities, you will NEVER have to worry about HIV.