These people here r very educated on HIV prevention/risks.So maybe u can take what they tell u w/a ton of questions/what ifs etc
ORAL SEX OF ANY KIND(protected/unprotected).U will NOT GET HIV even if the other person is HIV postive(enzymes n saliva kill those germs) even if u/the other person has any inflamed/bleeding n the mouth.As for hand jobs,fingering the same goes.HIV is a very sensitive/easily killed virus that can't live outside of the body.
U won't get it through touching things,saliva etc.
THE ONLY WAY U CAN GET IT IS THROUGH UNPROTECTED VAGINAL,ANAL SEX,FROM MOTHER2CHILD,SHARING WORKS(NEEDLE SHARING)We dont know peoples status so ALWAYS use protection.