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kissing with bleeding gums
Hi Dr, moderators,
3 months before I went to a cabaret/bar with a friend. i dont remember much from d night other than going there and meeting this girl. My friend told me the next day that the rule of the bar was that you can take the girl to a corner open room and have a private drink , kiss and touch her. No sex or oral sex. My friend says that I opted for that. I believe him. I went to the bar several days after the incident and met the girl who says that we had french kissed several times and I had touched her over her clothes.
Now my concerns are because of two things.
One that I have bleeding gums and had a mouth ulcer that night. Since I dont remember anything from the night cant say if she was bleeding in d mouth.
Two because I dont remember anything from d night. Have gone in d What if zone. What if while kissing I wud have bitten her lips and blood comes in d scenario.stuff like that. Please consider these in your assesment.
Only thing that is assured from my friend and d girl is that there was no sex or oral sex.
Please help ....shall I get tested..I am very scared..?
3 months before I went to a cabaret/bar with a friend. i dont remember much from d night other than going there and meeting this girl. My friend told me the next day that the rule of the bar was that you can take the girl to a corner open room and have a private drink , kiss and touch her. No sex or oral sex. My friend says that I opted for that. I believe him. I went to the bar several days after the incident and met the girl who says that we had french kissed several times and I had touched her over her clothes.
Now my concerns are because of two things.
One that I have bleeding gums and had a mouth ulcer that night. Since I dont remember anything from the night cant say if she was bleeding in d mouth.
Two because I dont remember anything from d night. Have gone in d What if zone. What if while kissing I wud have bitten her lips and blood comes in d scenario.stuff like that. Please consider these in your assesment.
Only thing that is assured from my friend and d girl is that there was no sex or oral sex.
Please help ....shall I get tested..I am very scared..?
To vance , sharkboy, nursegirl and all other experts..... I dont have d words to express my gratitude towards u guys.."I can no other answer make but thanks thanks n ever thanks"..ur direct reply and ur numerous replies to others....helped me go through these 13 weeks...I got my results today and its negative. God bless all u moderators...I will if you dont mind try to allay the anxiety of other guys like me who are going through similar problem.
God bless u guys!!
God bless u guys!!
Hi vance
With ur assuarance in my case I went and got tested. I will get d results in 5 days.this wait wud b difficult. I would be deeply thankful for any reassuarance.
With ur assuarance in my case I went and got tested. I will get d results in 5 days.this wait wud b difficult. I would be deeply thankful for any reassuarance.
Hi thanks 4 ur reply... but with bleeding gums even blood is involved in addition to the saliva. I am trying hard not to think about this. But somehow keep coming back. Please have a comment.
Kissing (deep or not) is not a risk for HIV. Even if you had bleeding gums, because only salivia is involved and that inhabits HIV.
Well when there is blood involved dr hhh sometimes doesnt specifically say no risk. Anyway you might know and understand him better. So your finsl words would be that I do not need to test and I can carry on with my life without worry?
And thank you so much for your reply vance. The community as a whole is a great help.
Hello Vance , so you would not be worried even if there was blood involved in kissing. Why do doctors even dr hhn sometimes doesnt fairly say its a no risk. Sometimes he says it probably might happen ? This is my last question. Please reply
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