minute of oral

[maskels]

i read a lot of questions here regarding unprotected oral sex and most answers here are "not a risk" but most google searched shows little risk... I'm just confused is there a study that says no risk? or it is just a part of medical term?

please help me convince myself that I am not at risk, i did an oral with a friend for less than a minute only,  i have no wounds on my mouth nor he on his "lulu", no precum either.

Thank you

[AnxiousNoMore]

You must have a problem understanding what you read, if you think most people here say not a risk. All say ZERO risk, which means you should know that wounds etc are irrelevant. It is time to move on.

[maskels]

Thanks for the answer, not really aside that english is not my main language I am jus wondering why most youtube or titkok videos some are doctors says "little risk" while there is a zero risk.

"I'm just confused is there a study that says no risk? or it is just a part of medical term?"

[AnxiousNoMore]

I have no idea what you mean by part of a medical term. No risk has a straightforward meaning. Obviously for that to happen there had to be a study. You have not been able to understand the straightforward comments I made, so I'm not getting into whatever you interpreted from a utube video  - which by the way, can be produced by anyone who wishes to calls himself doctor.

[maskels]

I appreciate your response but I wish it could be more pleasant or kind.

(cause you sound like you are insulting my capacity to understand/mental capacity by saying "You have not been able to understand the straightforward comments" "You must have a problem understanding what you read" I am here to ask things).  

When we have anxiety we tend to have a hard time to cope with things because of the fear and so on... Even though we already have the knowledge and everything. Anyway I already know what you are trying to say from the start I am just confused. NVM


Thank you. End of this thread.

[GuitarRox]

maskels, we have a lot of posters who have anxiety that prevents them from accepting our answers. Anxiety unfortunately prevents many from accepting the facts given on this forum. But this forum is moderated and answers only remain that comply with the moderation team and guidance from HIV expert doctors. They work hard to make sure information is accurate. Anxiety gets in the way of accepting that information and perhaps members here try to cut to the chase with that when they answer questions. But it really is meant to help people.

I can't speak for tiktok but you know, ANYONE can create a tiktok and there is no oversight. Other websites may post this or that. But the fact is, in 40 years of history of HIV, there has not been a single, documented or proven case of HIV from oral sex. You will not be the first.

[AnxiousNoMore]

For clarity,
1 all of the advice on this thread says oral is zero risk.
2 Zero risk is straightforward and doesn't have any other meaning at any time.
3 tik tok and utube are not places to go for medical advice.

[maskels]

@GuitarRox

Thank you, I understand and agree... I read so many threads before posting my own question here, this site really helps me to have my peace and information that I need.

About tiktok and youtube I guess they are being too conservative. I gonna stop researching and all that doesn't even help me.

"40 years of history of HIV, there has not been a single, documented or proven case of HIV from oral sex. You will not be the first." = thank you this makes me more calm.

@AnxiousNoMore
thank for spending time answering me question, yeah it gives confusions. I understand it now..

Thank you both, more power.

[GuitarRox]

I'm so glad we could help. Rest easy.

[AnxiousNoMore]

When I look at it from your initial point of view, that the videos could be correct, I see why you asked for a definition of "no risk." However we have cleared up everything now, so I hope you are back to your normal life like the multi-millions of others who had oral over the last 40 years, but didn't get hiv.