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one night stand-unprotected
I was experiencing a bit of a mental breakdown before turning 30, 7 weeks ago and I am married with a child I still nurse. I was angry with my husband(2 years of no sexual contact prior to this)and I stupidly had unprotected sex with a 42yr male who is part of forthcoming litigation against a company. We engaged in vaginal sex 2x that evening, no condom, no ejaculation inside of me either time. It was a one time only encounter. Upon returning from my trip away from home, I continued to nurse my child and had unprotected sex with my husband 2x.
14 days after my ONS I wasn't feeling well, sore throat, body aches. That went away within a few days. At 6 weeks my child I nurse has a cough, fever, drainage and congestion.But, my 10 yr old had a cough last week so she could have got that from her. My husband is complaining about a burning in his lower back that goes around his waist(not down there), mild cough and run down feeling. I have had body aches all week too. Now I am convinced I've ruined my whole families lives as well as mine with hiv. I can't sleep, chronic panic attacks now. My husband asked me today did you cheat because everything he read says shingles and his symptoms are a result of acute hiv infection. OMG I'm scared to death for all of us. It's been 7 weeks since ONS and I emailed the guy and asked him if he has hiv or if he had ever been tested, no response. some feed back please
14 days after my ONS I wasn't feeling well, sore throat, body aches. That went away within a few days. At 6 weeks my child I nurse has a cough, fever, drainage and congestion.But, my 10 yr old had a cough last week so she could have got that from her. My husband is complaining about a burning in his lower back that goes around his waist(not down there), mild cough and run down feeling. I have had body aches all week too. Now I am convinced I've ruined my whole families lives as well as mine with hiv. I can't sleep, chronic panic attacks now. My husband asked me today did you cheat because everything he read says shingles and his symptoms are a result of acute hiv infection. OMG I'm scared to death for all of us. It's been 7 weeks since ONS and I emailed the guy and asked him if he has hiv or if he had ever been tested, no response. some feed back please
Should I feel a little better. My husband found out he has a staph infection(probably from gym) and the guy contacted me a said he is positively negative and gets blood test every 6 months. I'm losing it still. I will test tomorrow.
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