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TEAK LIZZIE RICKY I am Sceeewed :(
Ok Guys a while back I thought my expossure was just oral... Well turns out the that condom did slip off, SHE IS PREGNANT :(
I am still having lymphnodes pop up all over the place, I have had a negative antibody test up to 82 days and a negative PCR RNA test. My ID doc said I might hace Occult HIV Infection, and he has personally seen this a few times before in his 20 years working with HIV....
I am Freaking OUT... I test again in 22 hours for my Job. HIV is not allowed for my type of work, and not allowed in the middle east,,,, what should I doo???. I want to run away from all this. I HATE SEX now and I feel like dying...
There is nothing enjoyable in my life and I am having really horrible thoughts
I am still having lymphnodes pop up all over the place, I have had a negative antibody test up to 82 days and a negative PCR RNA test. My ID doc said I might hace Occult HIV Infection, and he has personally seen this a few times before in his 20 years working with HIV....
I am Freaking OUT... I test again in 22 hours for my Job. HIV is not allowed for my type of work, and not allowed in the middle east,,,, what should I doo???. I want to run away from all this. I HATE SEX now and I feel like dying...
There is nothing enjoyable in my life and I am having really horrible thoughts
I just got back from the Medical screen. HIV 1&2 Clearview stat-pak NEGATIVE....
to all of you thank you for your support, i have to take a break from med help. I have helped a few people here to be strong about their HIV anxiety. But i need a break.
this pregnancy issue is now something i have to worry on. Med help I will be back with my experience and knowledge to try and halp folks but i need to put HIV out of my mind. for a while
Thank You thank you thank you
Been there123
to all of you thank you for your support, i have to take a break from med help. I have helped a few people here to be strong about their HIV anxiety. But i need a break.
this pregnancy issue is now something i have to worry on. Med help I will be back with my experience and knowledge to try and halp folks but i need to put HIV out of my mind. for a while
Thank You thank you thank you
Been there123
Goin throgh a same thing meself mate but a negative past the 3 months means you aint got it by what they say on here so that means you aint got it
i bet that hasnt took all your symptoms away and made you feel better has it no it wont coz that is how i feel at the moment i am sure i have got it just like you but only time is going to tell mate for the both of us but like i say you go by what everyone says on here you cant have it like i cant but it dont take the symptoms and pain away wish you the best of luck mate
i bet that hasnt took all your symptoms away and made you feel better has it no it wont coz that is how i feel at the moment i am sure i have got it just like you but only time is going to tell mate for the both of us but like i say you go by what everyone says on here you cant have it like i cant but it dont take the symptoms and pain away wish you the best of luck mate
Goin throgh a same thing meself mate but a negative past the 3 months means you aint got it by what they say on here so that means you aint got it
i bet that hasnt took all your symptoms away and made you feel better has it no it wont coz that is how i feel at the moment i am sure i have got it just like you but only time is going to tell mate for the both of us but like i say you go by what everyone says on here you cant have it like i cant but it dont take the symptoms and pain away wish you the best of luck mate
i bet that hasnt took all your symptoms away and made you feel better has it no it wont coz that is how i feel at the moment i am sure i have got it just like you but only time is going to tell mate for the both of us but like i say you go by what everyone says on here you cant have it like i cant but it dont take the symptoms and pain away wish you the best of luck mate
Thank you for your words, this has been a 4 month nightmare and the story keeps unraveling before my eyes. each time there is a twist in my situation it is for the worst. I swear I should write a story on this or try to make a movie and find a away to reeducate people on HIV. I have pretty much become an expert on the disease even though I still panic. I know the risks and I know the tests should be accurate but symptoms will cause a ton of unneeded panic. my dry cough has not gone away. the lymph nodes in my body all swelled up at the same time almost then when down, now the pop up and stay a week or so then move to another location. I wake up feeling like a truck ran me over and it’s hard to stand up in the morning. My vision is getting blurry/cloudy... and All kinds of stuff.
I went through all this already, when I thought it was acute infection, e.i sore throat, headache, pimples that spread all over my back, feeling hot all the time, fever, swollen nodes and a cough. this all lasted roughly 17days and nothing helped the symptoms.
Why did I get sick after sex???
I never get sick EVER :(
Even a cold, last one was Nov 2008
I feel like my blood is poisoned. this is truly a nightmare.
I went through all this already, when I thought it was acute infection, e.i sore throat, headache, pimples that spread all over my back, feeling hot all the time, fever, swollen nodes and a cough. this all lasted roughly 17days and nothing helped the symptoms.
Why did I get sick after sex???
I never get sick EVER :(
Even a cold, last one was Nov 2008
I feel like my blood is poisoned. this is truly a nightmare.
Calm down there is a very good chance you do not have HIV. Get tested and seek a second medical opion if possible. As for the baby are you sure its yours?
What I am trying to get at is. You will get to the bottem of this in time. So at this point dont panic there is no reason for that. You dont have anything set in stone saying you have HIV. Or that the baby is yours.
What I am trying to get at is. You will get to the bottem of this in time. So at this point dont panic there is no reason for that. You dont have anything set in stone saying you have HIV. Or that the baby is yours.
You need to calm down. While you obviously made a mistake...honestly, the chance of getting HIV from one episode of unprotected sex isn't very significant. Most likely, your test will be negative. A risk is a risk, and of course testing is needed, but you're getting WAY ahead of yourself.
The pregnancy has to be dealt with obviously...that's a whole other matter, Has she proved to you that she IS indeed pregnant? If she is, and the paternity test shows you are the father, then decisions will need to be made. You have time to work all of that out.
One day at a time. Your life isn't over. You have a wife and kids you need you to keep your self together and not lose it.
The pregnancy has to be dealt with obviously...that's a whole other matter, Has she proved to you that she IS indeed pregnant? If she is, and the paternity test shows you are the father, then decisions will need to be made. You have time to work all of that out.
One day at a time. Your life isn't over. You have a wife and kids you need you to keep your self together and not lose it.
Right now you are thinking the worse and all of this is unlikely. If the condom was hanging out of her then you came out of it on withdrawl. And most babies born today with an HIV mother are not HIV+ as long as the proper steps are taken. But that is thinking way too far ahead and thinking of something that is unlikely to happen.
Yeah so the condom slipped off and must have not noticed and i was in her unprotected. I did cum in her. I pulled out and noticed the condom was just hanging half in her. I figured I just slipped out when i pulled out, but i wasnt sure. i pulled the condom out of her and then checked it. It looked like i cumed in the condome and i checked it for holes. I did think it looked like just a litte cum but that is not really abnormal. OMG I am so screwed I can believe this is happening. I have a Wife and kids, I have been gone for a long time and i wsa bored lonely and horny and I messed up my whole life.
I will do a paternity test and HIV test will happen shortly. I think that this Sin is more thana lesson it is a sentence. HIV with HIV baby and HIV girlfriend, wife and kids that will have shame from their father. I am so stupid I hate myself. This is a curse and sex is not worth it. Sh*t........
I will do a paternity test and HIV test will happen shortly. I think that this Sin is more thana lesson it is a sentence. HIV with HIV baby and HIV girlfriend, wife and kids that will have shame from their father. I am so stupid I hate myself. This is a curse and sex is not worth it. Sh*t........
You know the guidelines for HIV testing...I would like to add that RARELY would a person NOT be aware of condom slippage. I STRONGLY suggest you insist upon paternity testing when the child is born. Do NOT just take her word for it.
Also, condom slippage would rarely result in HIV infection. Testing is warranted, but don't convince yourself of something that is actually quite unlikely.
Also, condom slippage would rarely result in HIV infection. Testing is warranted, but don't convince yourself of something that is actually quite unlikely.
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