Hi
I visisted my new boyfriend , last three weeks and i did not want to have sex with , so i decided that he must rub his penis in my vigina and the head of his penis was on my vigina for few minytes . he ejacualted on my abdomen . he just find out that he is HIV postive. i went Testing for my HIV and my result were Negative . what are my chances , i am so scare and stressed . please advise
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doesnt ejaculate and pre-ejaculate come from the HEAD of the penis?
sorry to bother you mum,but I forgot to mention that the penetration was not a complete one,it was only with the head of the penis,is there any difference?I think not but I want to be sure in case...
thanks a lot. xxxo
this is the hiv forum and we try not to cross over into other fields. if you have other health concerns...please post in the appropriate forums.
thanks to the devoted mother!!!
Am I still in the exposure of other STDs risks?like hepatitis C?do the tests for other STDs also need a 3 months period waiting?
common sense tells you that the longer one is exposed...the greater the risk. with that being said...hiv can also be present in pre-seminal fluid.
a risk is a risk...and if you want to know your status then you need to test. it's as simple as that.
I am also confused cause It is really difficult for me to perceive that only 2 minutes penetration without condom can infect me.is that true?at least the risk should be low,shouldn't it?
Thank anyway
hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child
it is not transmitted through...
oral sex
rubbing
fingering
use a condom for penetrative sex until you test at 3 months
Thanks for the quick answer Teak,but the guy says that he has not had other exposures in the past 3 months and nothing is wrong with him.He does not accept to go test.I would certainly ask my lover to use condom,but I am afraid about other things: should I prevent him from doing cunnilingus?or rubbing his penis to my vaginal secretions( I mean with no penetration)?should I avoid oral sex?what else should I do?you know sex with these limitations could be somehow weird for him,and should I still take other tests for other STDs except HIV?considering that I had been vaccinated for hepatitis B before?
You don't need ejaculation to transmit HIV or other STDs. Use condoms uith your lover until you can get a conclusive negative result which is 3 months post exposure or you may ask the other guy to go test if he has not had other exposures in the past three months.