Protected Sex with a thailand prostitute

[wako12345678]

Hi Doctor/Everyone,

I have a question/concern that is killing me for a few days now.  I had a protected sex with a sex worker from Thailand.  I know that I am stupid and doing this, I am 32yrs and never done this in my entire life, but apparently due to loneliness, my officemate was able to convince me to try.  With my stupidity I decided to try.. Please answer all of my questions below as this are the question in my mind that is killing me for days now.

1.  The sex worker suck and I think bite my left nipple a bit, while giving me a hand job, without condom.  I know that during that time, no blood my nipple she just bitting it a bit..  I dont why I am so stupid not to stop her from doing that.

2.  Since I am so tense during the encounter, I only had haft erection, she  gave me ******** but with a condom on.. (i dont know the brand of the condom, but I think it was thick enough to think it a safe one.)  Having said the half erected penis, I was able to penetrate her for less than a minute with a condom on but again half erect penis.  Then suddenly I totally lost my erection, then decided to stop for a minute then tried penetrating her again but cant do it anymore since my penis is not erected, I decided to stop and I check the condom, there seems to be a bubble on the tip of the condom when I stop.

3.  Having said the bubble on the tip of the condom, would that mean that her vaginal fluid was able to enter on the condom?

4. Question 4, As I have mentioned above I only have half erected penis when I enter her, would the condom still effective considering no erection anymore or half erected?

I apologize for the way I write, english is not my 1st language, I hope I explain enough.  Really really need your assistance on this as it's been killing me for days now, I am unable to function well at work and I am unable to sleep as well.  My encounter was august 10, 2009 and since then it's bettering me alot.   By the way doc everyone, I havent ejaculated at all due to no erection and tension, she tried giving me hand job while we're resting.   Also added to this, I was not able to check the condom whether it has a pin hole or not.   I know that I am stupid in thinking I should go back there and check the condom knowing they have already thrown it away.   Your answer is very much appreciated as anxiety is killing me right now.  Looking forward to get your answer on this.

[Teak]

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[wako12345678]

To my post I have mentioned that the CSW suck and bite my nipple a little bit.  Two days ago till now, I am feeling uncomfortable on the nipple the CSW suck and bite a bit.  The feeling is like "hot inside the nipple"

Also, recently I have check my penis and found a bump pimple like thing.  it's has red and then white on the center.  Small white only.

Please let me know what are this thing.  As well as what I feel on my left nipple...

[wako12345678]

HI Lizzie,

Thanks for the reply, yes the head of the penis is covered the whole time more than half of the penis actually is covered.  Thanks for confirming me about the risk on this.  really appreciate it.

Thanks again...

[LIZZIE LOU]

wasnt the head of your penis covered?

FURTHER QUESTIONS SHOULD BE ADDRESSED ON THE ANXIETY FORUM.  YOU DO NOT HAVE A HIV CONCERN.

[wako12345678]

To Lizzie and everyone,

This will be my final question, just want to ask.  Am at risk if my penis was not erected but was able to get inside her, when I pulled it out, the condom is only covering half of my penis I think or at least more than half.

Am I my risk having said that?  

[wako12345678]

Thanks for your response and understanding, I may be really need that.  Thanks so much for sparing your time to answer all my questions.  really appreciate it, just that I can't help it.  I am a husband and a father, good thing I am in different country right now, because I don't want to make love with my wife because i am afraid of giving her some STD or something..

[LIZZIE LOU]

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[Vance2335]

swollen lymph nodes happen for many different reasons. your risk has been told to you and if you can't move past it maybe see a therapist for some help.

[wako12345678]

but the swollen lymph node on my left armpit? is that nothing? sorry for keep on bothering you for this question.  really don't know what to do and what to think.

Thanks again in advance.

[Vance2335]

Yeah it sounds like you might be having a small anxiety attack.

You did not have a risk for HIV...move on from this.

[wako12345678]

I am also feel really hot inside right now and it's really unconfortable.  Hope you can enlighten me on my condition right now.  

Really appreciate your response.

[wako12345678]

To Teak and Lizzie,

I think I have a swollen Lymp node on my left armpit.  I am really scared now, is this a symptoms of HIV? I dont feel well as well right now.  I feel like I will be sick tomorrow for this.

Guys really need you answer on this.  Thanks again

[wako12345678]

I can't thanks you enough for answering all of my questions, and also thank you Teak and Patricius .

This forum gave me a lot of peace of mind.  I was actually thinking of going for a PEP because I was so scared.

Thanks again.

[wako12345678]

Thanks again for the reply.

Those bubbles like thing inside are not likely saliva from her, all I'm saying is they are saliva like.  I was thinking that maybe while I was inside her, some of her vaginal fluids got inside the condom, thats why there is bubbles inside the condom on the tip of my penis head.  Sorry I just want to know if some of you here has an idea on why there's bubbles like fluid on the tip inside the condom, even though I havent ejaculated.

Sorry just want to  hear your opinion about it.

[LIZZIE LOU]

NO...her vaginal fluids did not come through your condom from a pin size hole.

now move along...NOTHING you have described put you at risk for hiv.

[Teak]

Saliva is not infectious.

[wako12345678]

Thanks for the answer.  may I hear your opinion on the below question as well?

If incase the bubbles that I found inside the condom on the tip of my penis (bubbles like saliva or something) are from the female vaginal fluids, is there a chance of me getting HIV if the female is positive?

Thanks and regards

[LIZZIE LOU]

NO

[wako12345678]

Everyone,

forgot to add this.  I have also fingered her while taking a shower.  I am certain offcourse that I dont have cuts on the fingers that I have used.  Any risk on this?

[wako12345678]

1 more question,  

If incase the bubbles that I found inside the condom on the tip of my penis (bubbles like saliva or something) are from the female vaginal fluids, is there a chance of me getting HIV if the female is positive?

Your answer is greatly appreciated and sorry for alot of questions..

[Teak]

Haven't a clue...

[wako12345678]

Thanks for your answer, you're have lessen my worries a bit.  I need your opinion though on this.  Sorry for bothering you again.

Also just a clarification/question, why is it when I check the condom after penetrating her, I saw a saliva like bubbles on the tip of the condom.  Would that indicate that some of her vaginal fluid got inside the condom?

please really really need your answer on this as it's disturbing me alot.  I am to the point that I cant sleep anymore..

[Teak]

You had no risk.

[wako12345678]

Also just a clarification/question, why is it when I check the condom after penetrating her, I saw a saliva like bubbles on the tip of the condom.  Would that indicate that some of her vaginal fluid got inside the condom?

please really really need your answer on this as it's disturbing me alot.  I am to the point that I cant sleep anymore..