worried

[johndeere850j]

I'm a 22 year old white male. This was my first sexual encounter with a girl who was not my girlfriend. I have had two girlfriends in my past who were both virgins so I don't believe there was a risk of getting HIV there. But, what I am concerned about is the encounter I am about to describe.

Back on about december 15 I was at my best friend's birthday party and got way too drunk. There was a hot girl there at the party who was mackin on me the whole night. Right before I was feeling like passing out I remember her leading me back to a bedroom and ripping off my clothes. I remember her giving me oral, then I gave her oral. BUT from what I heard from another girl at the party who went back in the bedroom with us ( to watch us I guess, I don't know) was that I was too drunk to actually have vaginal sex with her, as in I guess I couldn't get it up (hey, it happens). I think I remember trying to get it in her vagina without a condom but I am pretty sure I was too intoxicated. So the worst that happened was penis contact down in the area a lot of mouth to mouth kissing, etc etc. She did attempt to give me head- trying to get it hard you know, and I gave her oral. That morning when I woke up and she had left the house, all the people at the party said that she is a ***** and has bragged about having sex with 20 different guys. At that point I was deathly afraid I may have screwed my life up, so I began to medicate myself with a 750 ml bottle of jack daniels. Anyway, since then I have been feeling just fine. I do an hour of cardio everyday and weight train four times a week for football, I have been just the same as always.

What I would like to know is, based on what I have described to have been my encounter, my chances that I have contracted hiv/aids from the activity I engaged in. I am white, she is white. She had no sores or anything crazy like that on her mouth or vagina area.

[NickOne7]

If you believe you inserted her vagina test 3 months post exposure.

[johndeere850j]

Alright, hey thanks for the replies bud. I don't know her number to ask her but I am pretty sure I wasn't able to, some of the guys that were at the party were giving me crap that next morning because when we came back from the bedroom into the living room she said I couldn't get it up. I was way too f*ed up to remember. I'm normally don't make stupid decisions like that, but when youve got a a blonde bombshell smiling at ya the whole night it is tough to say no drunk or sober. you know what i mean haha. well I guess I will just take it from memory that I didn't insert it, I mean i am pretty sure I wasn't able to but there is a chance I guess. So 3 months until I can get tested right? I'd want to know so I could buy a good life insurance policy before I would go ahead and check myself out or join the navy seals or something and volunteer for frontline duties.

[NickOne7]

Rubbing on the vigina with your penis is not a risk
If you never inserted your penis into her vigina there was no risk.

Inserting just the head of your penis for only a second would still be a risk - So think back to how your time went and answer that.

But as for what you described above NO RISK AT ALL

[johndeere850j]

OK thanks so I would have had to get it in and get her done right to have a risk of getting HIV right? No real risk just kinda rubbing it around in that area correct?

[NickOne7]

You NEVER had a risk of getting HIV,

HIV is transmitted via,

Unprotected vaginal and anal sex
Sharing IV Drugs with infected users
Mother to child

You have not described any of these

Hope this helps

[johndeere850j]

Also, i do have a less than pea sized lump under my chin about an inch and a quarter from the front of the chin. It don't hurt or anything, I just read somewhere that little lumps like that mean you could have hiv.