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HIV topic story along with other post of mine

My girlfriend she got tested a while bak before dating me, she came out negative. So thats a good thing for me. We talked about our status i never had sex until her, so i doubt i have an STD or HIV but we will go get tested soon for our sake. But, She only made out with one guy before us and so if she had cuts in her mouth and or if he did could they possible contracted HIV that way? or what situation? idk just little things that bug me...

Please this will help me with my anxiety and life, for those that comment it...
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ok man i feel good now... cuz i kno i dont have it cuz i never had sex and am a very OCD person with HIV stuff... idk y, but always have been.

and since she is           negative!!! not gonna say it will not b brought up ever again. but ya for now.. i got to get anxiety out of my head =] w00t!
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The answer is same. Not sure why are you so obsessed with the hiv factor?   trust your girl friend man. There is no way one could get HIV thru kissing or oral sex.

as L-L said, no one's answer will change. dont amplify your anxiety. Take it easy.

good luck.

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ya your right i had forgot that. but idk it just came bak to me it was wandering in my mind but ok i re-read what i had wrote, but ya ok cool =]

So, you think im ok? you think its anxiety that is killing me?!
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you just asked this same question on feb.27th...in a post titled "oral hiv".  please dont continue to ask the same questions...no one's answer will change.

you can also search the community archives...as kissing has been discussed repeatedly.
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well we have had unprotected sex before, yesterday to be exact but i had a condom on at first then, busted and then put another one on. untill i had no more and i kept going.

So i mean we will go some day, it doesnt worry her but it does to me.

so was my first and her past had protected sex, and she got tested after last person there were only 2 ppl and they were protected, her sister and her went together a while bak like 2-6months ago.(negative)  she has not been with anyone as in sex wise she has had boyfirends in that time period but lets just say theoredically she has a cut in her mouth and the other guy does to but cuts dont touch, can she get it, but what if the cuts do touch? ?!?!?!
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No way man. statistically it is highly impossible for her to be infected. Also it is assuring that she tested negative in the recent past.

if the above explanation is not convincing to you. Here is what you can do to be 100% sure, but that would be overkill.

1) Practise safe sex until its 3 months
2) then both of you can get tested for conclusive results
3) continue to practise safe sex

Absolutely there is no reason to panic.
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