genital rubbing

[hecticworried]

About 4 days ago. I went to a message palour.
The escourt gave me oral with a condom and we had sex also with a condom. Thereafter she messaged me, she rubbed her virgina on my unprotected penis, i did not notice any fluids and 99.99% no penatration (this worries me alot). She then after gave me oral with a condom and we had sex also with a condom again.

Very worried, please help

[hecticworried]

thanks Lizzie.

But i feel your comment helped me

Fear brings anxiety...and anxiety brings doubts.

Anyway doctors don't help, all they say get tested in a few weeks, they don't even assess the situation and tell you, if you are in high, low, or No risk. I guess thats what also brought the anxiety.

That is why the help we get from this forum and you are much more helpful than other.

So, thank u very much

God bless

[LIZZIE LOU]

ck your local area for services, ie. doctor / therapist / psychologist

[hecticworried]

how do i access this psychological support.

[hecticworried]

how do i access this psychological support.

[hecticworried]

Thanks Lizzie you are the BEST and the help you provide to us "idiots" who do dumb things, assists us to move on with our lives.

You are Absolutely correct, i would have known if i penetrated her, and i did not feel any penetration during the rubbing. It was just the "FEAR" that caused my anixiety when i did not see my penis head.

Thanks LIZZIE.

[LIZZIE LOU]

fear creates anxiety...anxiety creates doubt

you WOULD HAVE KNOWN if there was any penetration during the "rubbing".

you had NO risk

[gumm_BIH]

You don't need any testing, but feel free to have one test for psychological support, and I hope it will help you sleep better.

[hecticworried]

I have decided not to take the PCR Tect, after hearding about all the negative comments regarding the Test

I still need some help PLEASE!!!!!!!!, to ease my mind.

I am not very clued-up relating to the female genital anatomy.

While the CSW was messaging me, i was laying on my back and she was between my legs and started grinding her pubic area on my scrotum. What worries me a bit, for a second or two i did not see my penis head. 99% chance her abdomen cover it.

Is there a possibility of Penetration, knowing that the vigina opening is at the back-end near the anus.

Should i go for a test, or am i being Paranoid

We did use a condom for the oral and viginal intercourse.

Please help me!!!!!!

[hecticworried]

Went to see a doctor today, as i am still a bit stressed about my situation. I request for a HIV PCR test. He told me to come back on the 11th Nov. as the best time to do the test will be at 4 weeks.

I know my situation is of a low risk but i am doing this to bring clousure to this matter.

I PRAY TO GOD I AM NEGATIVE.

[Teak]

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

[hecticworried]

Hi lizzie,

Thank you for your reponse to my post.

Just another question

I have been playing this over & over in my head. The escourt was rubbing her virgina on my unprotected penis while i lay on my back . She was rubbing my penis from the trunk/base and never came up to the stomach area. Is there any chance of penatration, because for a few seconds i did not see my penis head (not sure if her stomach area was covering it)

Just need a females view on this

Thanks

[hecticworried]

thank you very much. I need to be more careful in the things i do.