worried and risk assessment

[shanjiang]

Hi,Drs.
I am from China,and I recently ,precisely speaking,on aug.5th ,I met a strange girl whose status is unknown to me after drinking some beer and make out with her for the whole night. it concerned me later .so I had a bunch of questions and I am appreciated for  risk assessment.
1.I rubbed maybe hit against her vainal filed with my penis  with both of our underwear on ,but hers is pretty wet,so was the tip of my underwear.
2.she gave me oral sex ,and kissed me afterwards.
3.I was too scared to perform any penetration because there was no condom present,so I used my finger(2or3)to masterbate her pretty deep ,I even touched a heave(I don't know what it is )inside her vagina,and then I used both hand to cover my penis in order not to put into her vagina while she wanted me to do so for several times.Both of us were naked and she was on top.
4.I think I rubbed my eyes after masterbate her without washing muy hands sooner or later.
5.I touched her nipples with hands masterbating her and I sucked her nipples  later.
6.I kissed her deeply  for quite long time and for many times that night.we made out for several hours and kissed a lot.what concerned me is I had bleeding gums in one area.I didn't obviously tasted blood while kissing her,but right now it concerned me the most .And about 6 or 7 years ago I started to wear dental braces for 2 years,would that make it more dangerous?
7.I remembered she licked me all around,including my ears.I just find out there is a negligible sore inside my ears which is not bleeding,but I felt it with my hands recently and after digging it for a while and broke it ,I can notice ,although few ,there is obvious blood on my finger.will that put me at risk?
8.my stomach hurted at aug 9th,5 days after possible exposure,and I didn't feel it anymore right now.could that be the dangerous symptom?

Do I need to get tested for all of my behaviour above?

thanks,
shan

[Vance2335]

Read the 1st answer I gave you

[shanjiang]

thanks,
as I said,if ,by any chance,my tip point of my penis have contact with a little bit inside of her vigina ,would be considered a real risk?(I didn't feel any real penetration in this activity)
could you please explain that in more details,I would really appreciate of that

[Vance2335]

Nothing you say is going to change FACT that you had no risk.

[shanjiang]

another thing is just recently,a week after the possible exposure,I just find out there is some red point on my back(rash maybe?),it's not painful yet but pretty obivious,would you consider it possible dangerous sign? thanks

[shanjiang]

thanks for your answer,now two things concerned me a lot ,which made my day pretty tough,first things is as I mentioned I hit against her vainal filed with my penis  with both of our underwear on ,but hers is pretty wet,so was the tip of my underwear. And as I examined my underwear,the normal boxer type,it has the typical a gap in the middle.what I'm not sure is if my tip point of my penius slipped to the gap and were exposed to her wet underwear when I was doing the rubbing and hitting,also I'm not sure if her underwear is intact or not being pulled aside,I just noticed after I finished my penis didn't slipped out of my underwear and her underwear is wet and the tip of mine is also wet.I'm concerned if ,by any chance,my tip point of my penis have contact with a little bit inside of her vigina ,would be considered a real risk. (I didn't feel any real penetration in this activity)thanks very much

[Vance2335]

So you think there has been 1 case in over 30 years of HIV. No there has not been.

[shanjiang]

I am very worried so I searched for a while,it came back the 1997 case,
http://www.nytimes.com/1997/07/11/us/case-of-hiv-transmission-is-first-to-be-linked-to-kiss.html
I know I shouldn't post excessively but I'm worried of my gums now which bleeded sometime even today.But could you please explain that in more details of my concern,thanks

[Vance2335]

NEVER A DOCUMENTED CASE FROM KISSING

[shanjiang]

thanks for your answer,right now what concerned me the most is my gum problem.I don't know if I had gingivitis,but my gums would occasionally bleed while brushing my teeth or doing nothing.I can feel it most of the time.there is one area besides my front tooth bleeding most often. I am really worried about this since I noticed the only documented case through kissing was blood exchange through bleeding gums.

[Vance2335]

PS my answer is not going to change

[shanjiang]

PS.I think I touched and inserted my finger a little bit into her anus while masterbating her,would that put me at risk with my action for covering my penis and possibly rubbed my eyes later

[Vance2335]

No you don't HIV is transmitted sexually from unprotected vaginal and/or anal sex.