A silly question about Sex

[lindavalu]

I'm posting this because I had to tell someone about my stupidity and you folk are a long way away and tho you can I hope laugh at me on line u don't live next door to me.
Actually I can't pretend to be a shy wee thing I just need to laugh at my self for a different tragedy other than looking ridiculous climbing on my horses and for having trouble touching my toes at the moment ( O ;
This post is about SEX or the lack of to be more honest.
Just recently I met a younger man (oh oh) he loves horses (he's my farrier) handles them beautifully they relax under his hands shiveringly (is that a word)hmmmm
He started to chat to me lots when he did my horses feet and even ph me to see how my horses were doing wow a dedicated man you think?
HE loves Quarter horses their lush and big bums and chests and it turns out other big chested things.
We started flirting on line a new experience for me then.......... I freaked out and ran away when face to face.
This friendly Lad offered uncomplicated lover and friend sex and laughter  and I said no at the eleventh hour (Well it was more about 10.30 pm.
Why did I do this? OK not as flexible at the moment. Alright, he was prepared to work with that.
Up and down like a yo yo pardon the pun . (and the man likes yo yo's)
I certainly could do with the exercise and recreation.
OK I did have a devastating break up with my partner of some years who told me he loved me right up to the minute he decided he loved 2 of us and wanted me to accept a woman into our lives I didn't even like very much.(Mid life crisis) when I was on meds and couldn't be clear about any thing.
But past herstory aside why am I doing this strange thing of saying no to a bit of loving fun with some one I like?
Am I now just wanting an mono sexual life with only myself for thrills and titillation (sorry had to throw that word in what can I say I'm obviously extremely immature)
Now I can see how silly this post is but is there a healthy sexual drive after hepc that goes beyond your self once in a while?? back out into the wider world or am I going to continue to feel like brave sir Robbin who bravely ran away away and bravely ran away. When danger rares its ugly head she bravely turned her tail and fled .......etc any one else scared to get back out there?
or is this just another tragic get over your self Linda the drama queen type situation???

[lindavalu]

To Bill
"Coincidentally, he ran his final exhibition run in my little hometown in California at Tanforan Park."
Oh my god Bill what can I say....
THat is almost a great significance of cosmic proportions (o;
is it fate?
if so we should probably be aware he returned home and ended out being stuffed and mounted in my closest bigger town of Brisbane HMMM.
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To Alagirl
"Yeah, I tried that and had found I had to quit, I was such an expensive date.  I wouldn't put out for less than lobster, a fillet and a bottle of opus..."
Good for you woman, I, on the other hand, according to ex lovers other than myself am an incredibly cheap date.
I don't drink very often at all,so a glass of cold beer on a hot sultry Aussie night under starry skies has me rolling around in giggles and I'm apparently very easy at that point.
Oh I obviously have a lot to learn.(o:
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Question
Is Roflmao a new sexual position we colonials down under haven't heard of yet? (o;
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Scratch
Seriously..I've found there's nothing quite like sharing my partners experience of me experiencing mine like eye gazing while loving.
"flattering" well it sure touches you every where.
But I thought this was a blith little bit of coltish fun with each other If your going to get serious could take us to a whole new level. ( O :
Seriously yours and a touch of tounge in cheek.
Linda the kiwi chick from down under.... (the rest of the world that is not farriers)

[scratchinghead]

ROFLMAO

[alagirl]

well over the years I have developed a pretty on going relationship with myself
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Yeah, I tried that and had found I had to quit, I was such an expensive date.  I wouldn't put out for less than lobster, a filet and a bottle of opus...

[scratchinghead]

Smile while you are having sex. If the other partner has their eyes open, it is very flattering. I'm not one for the "oh baby baby" look. Again, it might be just me. A smile goes a long way.

I'm thinking one notch above a Mona Lisa smile. Backed way off of the "sh!t eating grin".

seriously

[Bill1954]

Quite an interesting story about PharLap, Linda. Coincidentally, he ran his final exhibition run in my little hometown in California at Tanforan Park. Quite the beast, he was; noted worldwide for his stamina, by the way!

Did I tell you I adore horses? (Well, not until today, to be honest :o)). Now if I can just suppress the urge to grab the next Quantas flight south…

Oh, and don’t worry about the nuns- let them find their own stallions…

Bill

[lindavalu]

To Bill
In Australia we would say Hiyoooo Pharlap
(which is very appropriate for me cause I think he immigrated here from NZ too)
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To Alagirl
   " this would depend mightily upon how good you are at sex with yourself..."
well over the years I have developed a pretty on going relationship with myself and I never have to explain to me exactly how and where to place the finger on the button and I never put the hard word on if I've got a head ache ( O ;
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jmjm and Alagirl
"People HAVING sex are frequently funny, and almost universally they make funny faces. "
I'm sure looking into the depths of some ones eyes while they're making funny faces can be very touching and heart felt....
any way I do enjoy a good giggle some times while making love so occasionally funny faces really do it for me.
Harry proves the point. His wife obviously enjoys a giggle while hmmm and seemingly hasn't had enough of his face as she apparently felt compelled to take a photo of her wild stallion during an obviously tender moment between them then posted it for all of us to see, how sweet ( O ;
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and "what else does one say when they constantly keep calling out someone else's name?"
I just give my fellas nick names to start with like "gorgeous man"or "big boy" (they've particuarly liked that one)
you know like- "Come here and do that gorgeous man".
that way they all have the same name and you never need to wake up with a start some hours later and wonder whose name you called out in the throws.
But saying you have a multiple personality disorder works too and in point of fact isn't too far from the truth for me right now.
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and Scratch
er ok I guess if my hand is numb the right hand won't know what the left hand is doing huh?
good plan.Thanks for the worldly advice people the nuns would be proud if they could read me now ( O ;