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461838 tn?1255790216

am I crazy

I am going to drive 5 hrs this Friday tx night, to Moyock NC to meet Carol a woman I met on myspace and after talking to daily have decided we are love with the person we've been communicating with. She knows I am on tx, and my situation with sx and such. She has worked in the medical field a lot of her life is presently the main tech for an orthopedic surgeon. She has invited me up to stay in a 8 bedroom resort house at Sand Bridge Beach in Virginia. Her nephew is getting married that weekend and I am invited to that, to meet her family, 3 daughters and enjoy the beach with her and get to know each other.

We both have really worked this over in our minds and so forth. She doesn't want it to be awkward and wants us to really fall in love, not just love each other, but the whole nine yards.  I have always felt we were soulmates.

We will be together not in the same room from Friday until Monday. My concerns are besides the obvious is my sx during tx, also my essential tremors rear their ugly head at a moments notice moreso  through tx.
I just want to make her feel good and it was worth it and go from there.
The most I have driven since being on tx is about 45 minutes. I have never driven to Moyock NC, which is near Elizabeth City.  I hope there are a lot of pitstops on the way.

I really don't want to cause her any unhappiness, or pain. I don't want to kill myself doing this also. I guess if truelove is afoot we'll get through this,  I guess I was thinking when we planned this that I would be well into tx and not experiencing these sx.
Anyway, am I crazy,     It is a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart.

Peace and health

This the first time I have attempted anything like this really in my life and going through tx.

I have fears and try to give them to faith, I guess the main one is what if we don't click, then I drive home. What if I am sick from tx, she said that I may have to sleep on a couch so i am not sure that I'll have my own room. I am thinking about the using the bathroom 8 times a night, excluding diarrhea.
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338734 tn?1377160168
Alright dude! Even dangerous schemes look good when they're in the rear-view mirror and were a success. Yes, I think your crazy. May you never recover! This thread is like a novel you can't put down.

So, it is only another six hours to RG's place. Maybe next time, eh?

Brent

P.S. GoofyDad - if you are not a writer, you should be. If you are, I want to read your books. That was one messy turtle-head decapitation. LOL!
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548668 tn?1394187222
OMG - I've been so waiting your return!!  It (she :-) sounds well worth the monumental effort;  glad you're home safe (safer when your hgb is better!!!!)..  Get a great rest!
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Yayyyy! 'm so happy for you. I was afraid you were taking on too much. Sooo glad it worked out.
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Glad you took a chance, Never underestimate these lovely creatures- sounds like you've got a good one too.  Take care, and if it worked out this well in the condition you're presently in... well, I'm thinking and hoping it will only get better for you.
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419309 tn?1326503291
Ah, the scent of sweet romance :) ...  made me smile ear to ear, too, and made me think of this song...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ykmewqEUZHU&feature=related

Glad to hear it was worth the trip!
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92903 tn?1309904711
Hmmm....

No juicy details. Like whether the nurse/girlfriend came equipped to dispense the obligatory ''first-night-together-in-a-swanky-B&B" enema. Gee - this headshop dude plays his cards pretty close to the vest...

Sheesh.....

Glad it all worked out well. Adding a little spring to your step will make the coming months easier.
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