6 days ago I have a risky encounter with an anfrican woman. I recieved brief oral (5 seconds), fingered her, and we rubbed genitals for about 30secs- 1 minute, i was not erect but penis made contact with her vagina and fluids fir sure. From day 2-3 post exposure i have had swollen lymph nodes in groin, and difficulty passing urine, day 4 my neck glands were up, and days 5 and 6 ive had night sweats. My first thought was HIV which i guess is possible, but was told the symptoms are a bit early. What else could it be? Can it be heroes even without an obvious itch or sore? Really stressing out so any thoughts would be appreciated!