hi,
I'm concerned about possibly having herpes but my symptoms are irregular so I don't know what to do---!? I have a red area, about 1 cm in diameter just below my lower lip (crossing over onto the lip itself), it's irritated and painful and also my lips are quite chapped. I've had this for about a day already, and the red area is also chapped, but there are no blisters formed, no pus, etc. -- none of the nasty things you see in all the herpes photos. But I've read that sometimes redness and irritation proceeds the actual blisters? Or that sometimes the area can be irritated without forming blisters, but it is still herpes? So my question is, about how long does it take, usually, for the redness to progress into a blister? The truth is, I made out and performed oral sex on a new partner a couple of days ago so I am very concerned, but I don't want to confront her about it if it is just random irritation or a chapped lip from the cold weather...!
thank you------------------
xx