most of my 17 year old's friends don't date and never have dated. you are not some anomaly! even my 21 year old, he and most of his friends don't bother dating either. Sure if someone interesting comes along, they chat them up and sometimes go out on a date or two but most of the teens I know, are not in relationships with others.
are you talking to a counselor about all of this?
but im 16 and i never dated ANYONE before! people my age are always in relationships. but i can't find anyone because everyone is straight! and theres no other gay guys! thats why i have to search online. but i can't even find anyone there. i feel even worse right now ):
it has nothing to do with being gay dear. It has to do with growing up and your hormones controlling you more so than your brain - we all go through it :)
this is what i get for being gay :(
but something is still missing in my heart.
i need a man. you don't understand :(
sounds like you have plenty of interests to pursue that don't involve sex until you are more ready for it :)