Initial outbreak or not? Last fall I was surprised by a herpes select hsv2 2.75 after a bad break up- learning my "faithful" partner was not faithful. I thought I had no symptoms or outbreaks. Have been racking my brain on this trying to remember anything out of the ordinary. Early November 2009 after being with my ex for 3 months of unprotected sex we had rough long dry sex one morning. I had cough, cold and maybe flu like symptoms at the time- not bad. But remember buying cough & cold meds and a blanket for me to curl up in while we were driving to a family reunion. Couple of days later he goes and gets a prescription of his antibiotics filled for me since we were flying to Vegas. I remember at that timer all my girly parts were red and extremely swollen (my clit was hard for several days) , itchy and there was blood on the toilet paper when I wiped. Not like period or break through bleeding but like it was from cuts. I even remember using a mirror to look at it and googling herpes and looked at the pictures thinking that isn't it. And hoping it cleared up in a few days because we were going to Vegas for lots of fun. So is this common for herpes? I have had several women tell me they had the same symptoms and the doctor told them they didn't have herpes but later found out they did. I so wish I would have had went to the doctor then.