I think I may have herpes. I had a condom break on me on nov 4 and gave oral to a woman. Not long after my lips broke out but not into bumps, it was more like a raised dry area on my upper lip. My bottom lip didn't have bumps but had what felt like a raw streak of skin along it. Last week I felt the tingle of a cold sore and a bump came to on my lip the next day. The bump was gone within 3 days and never burst or caused any pain. On my penis flat dry areas would show when I stretched my penile skin but are now gone. Two bumps are on my penis near the head but they are painless and have been there for over a month now. I occasionally feel a pain in my urethra. What is this?