Ok, so I was recently diagnosed with genital HSV-1 and have a few questions. I've been doing some research and found the the time between exposure and initial out break is generally 2-20 days. My initial out break was ~ 1 week after having oral sex with a new partner who has no history of cold sores or HSV-1 to their knowledge (asymptomatic but never tested); however, they're VERY recent ex DOES. I myself have an ex boyfriend who got cold sores, but we were always fairly careful and I haven't had any sexual contact with him in almost 2 years. Is there any possibility that I was exposed by my ex? I haven't seen anything about such a delayed initial outbreak, and I'm positive that I have never had symptoms like this before.
Also, for future reference, I've heard that if any future partners of mine have a history of HSV-1 (oral or genital), the likelihood of me re-infecting them in a different location is almost un-heard of. Is this true? Would it matter if they had ever had a sore or not, or would a positive blood test be reassurance enough?
Thank you thank you thank you to anyone who can help me with some information or resources.