Herpes, contact question

[allen487]

Hello, I was kissing a girl an I rubbed her vagina with her panties on. I was naked and I think she might have rubbed her wet panties against my penis, but I can't be for sure.  She then gave me oral sex but I did not ejaculate.  She then told me she had genital herpes. She told me she did not have an outbreak in the genital area, nor does she have HSV1 of the mouth.  We did not have any intercourse.  Are my chances pretty low of contracting the virus?  

[gracefromHHP]

ok good

[allen487]

Yes

[slesquire]

I had mono 3 yrs ago and tested positive for hsv1 a few days ago but neg for hsv2 I am wondering if this could b a false + because of the mono... Never had symptoms of hsv1 and am almost positive that persons I hv kissed don't hv hsv1 plz help

[gracefromHHP]

including herpes?

[allen487]

Yes I did

[gracefromHHP]

already said you were not at risk for her genital herpes.

did you get full std testing after your last partner?

[allen487]

Thank you for your reply, I am recently divorced so this is the first new woman I've been with over 10 years.  Also, if I touched her down there with her panties on, I assume that is not a risk either, even if she was a little wet.  She mentioned she has not had any outbreaks recently, and she is also on Valtrex.  I am not at risk correct?

[gracefromHHP]

you were not at risk for her genital herpes.

unprotected oral sex is a risk for std's. you should always have protected sexual contact!!!  Whether or not you ejaculate during oral has nothing to do with your std risk either!!  

have you ever been tested for herpes to know your own status?

grace