Saw an Escort, Question

[sypress]

I saw an escort yesterday, which I regret doing and have been trying to quit doing.. but anyways, there were a few things I did and I was curious if they put me at risk for herpes:

1. I kissed her cheek, not sensually, just little pecs that might have touched her lip at one point although I doubt it touched her lip. I also kissed her breasts in little pecs.

2. I fingered her, but washed my hands with soap right after before touching myself.

3. Sorry to be so detailed, but my penis did go between her breasts a few times for some "breast massage" if you will.

I have been trying to quit visiting escorts for the past 4 years, and while I am getting successful in some cases.. I rarely see them nowadays but still engage in risky behavior that I can't control. Do you guys have any recommendations on how to fight this sex addiction? I feel very lost, and also if you could tell me if there was anything I should be worried about in terms of herpes.

[feelingundone]

I understand. Most by appointment escorts are safer than the drunk chick at the bar. Far safer.
Always use a condom for Intercourse and receptive oral sex. I'm sure you do this already.
I also think there's no reason to be hard on yourself. Ifor you really believe you have a sex addiction then by all means see a professional and work on your issues. If you are just a normal guy that likes this sort of thing, then be as careful as you can.

[feelingundone]

Nothing you did on your visit is risky for hsv. No need to test either. You needn't worry about hsv.
As far,as your behavior goes. If your married then I see your delema. If not, then your really not hurting anyone.

[sypress]

Thanks undone, that helped calm my nerves. I think the ultimate problem with my behavior is if it goes unchecked it could lead to some risky behavior down the line and I don't want an std. Thank you for your advice.