I'm a 20 year old gay male and I've had sexual contact with three men in the past four months. I haven't had penetrative anal sex with any of them, solely oral sex and mutual masturbation. About a month ago (about a week after my most recent sexual contact) I developed a persistent itching sensation on my butt, under my upper thighs, and between my butt cheeks. At first there was no noticeable redness or bump, but three weeks later as the itching persisted a few light red spots turned up in the affected area. The spots were raised and they haven't turned into sores, but they've consistently itched. I had flu like symptoms about two weeks before the itching (before my most recent sexual contact) and about a week after I was with my last partner.
The flu like symptoms match up with the herpes symptoms I've looked up, but I hadn't heard of anyone getting the same flu symptoms twice (they were exactly the same). Also, as I said, the bumps aren't raised and have formed no blisters. They're a very light red and difficult to see. Do you think this is herpes?