the skin on your fingers is too thick for the virus to easily penetrate. you won't get genital herpes from kissing someone. this really was a no risk for you.
grace
Okay, so even if she did have herpes, it isn't likely I will get it is what you are saying?
This is a low risk situation. Oral sex would have given you genital herpes if anything and the fingering holds no bearing on anything. Making out if she had herpes could have given you oral herpes. Chances are this is chapped lips like grace said. See your provider for a proper work up but I think you will find you are over working this in your head.
So, I just got head, fingered and made out with this girl, and I know for a fact she has had a lot of sex with guys and girls. I'm freaking out I know the most likely thing I could contract if anything is herpes. All I did was finger her and I tried to make sure I didn't touch any other part of my body with that hand, but I may have if so is that bad? And what is the likely hood of me getting herpes from her giving me oral? She told me she also is a blood doner I don't know if that matters or anthing...I'm paranoid already and it's way to early for me to get any symptoms.
this sounds like chapped lips. if you need peace of mind, see your provider.
are you putting a decent lip moisturizer on them regularly?
grace