kissing a girl, getting dry top lips next day?????? kinda red under lips ?????

[dominican63]

ok its been 2-3 days and only my top  lips are dry with some small white flakes but no blistering just alot of drynies i may or may not feel inflammation in my gums because my lips always been big ..came down with a cold the second day but i was around freinds who were sick already.. and its pretty cold out and that night i kissed that girl it was very cold and i had on a jersey dont ask lol ,..oh yeah and the thing i remmber is my kissing her pubic hair region ..no sexual act no oral sex..

when i kissed the girl it was alot fo drinking but made sure she didnt have a cold sore or bumps
her lips looked pretty normaly girly yu kno

symptoms
1: dryneiss only on top lip with some black( but i smoke cigs and they always been there) so its manly dryniess under my lips the gums a little red ish ..
2.when dry thats when the flakyniess happens on my lips
3.when i put carmax it goes way but comes back next day
4.  when i woke up earlier felt my top lips felt havy but dry...
5.sore thoart kinda going away . headache goes away with iBuprofen pill or without its just mild
6.coughing , sneezing ,stuffynoes

some help with this be nice ...
some answers too ..

no sexual act so thats why im writing

[feelingundone]

I absolutely don't think it's hsv. I am just concerned that you will continue to feel this stress after every encounter.

[feelingundone]

I reviewed your posts on medhelp. Seems you have some issues no matter what your exposures are. This does not sound like hsv at all. Now, my advice would be. Seek out help for your anxiety. This seems to be your real enemy here. I wish you luck in releasing this undo stress and just enjoy your life.

[dominican63]

I'm sorry im just worrying here :/ I mean me and the girl made out a little but but nothing crazy and if you think this isn't hsv then I believe you.