odds are that neither you nor your partner have ever been tested for herpes before.
at this point, you need to be seen and get a proper exam to find out what is going on. if they suspect herpes, they can do the proper testing.
grace
Thank you grace. I didn't know there were two types of testing. I thought when they tested you they checked for everything. Also on every thing I found it says that you will see signs on herpes after 2-20 days within contact... Why would it just randomly show up if it is herpes.