You've probably answered this question many times already, but since I haven't been terribly successful searching for it here, I'll ask anyway.
I contracted HSV II about 25 years ago. A few years later, I married and was with my husband for many years. He never contracted the virus as far as we know. However, I am divorced now and have been seeing someone new for a short time. We haven't gotten sexual yet but soon will, and I am getting up my courage to tell him about HSV II beforehand.
My questions:
(1) I know the virus doesn't go away, but is there any evidence that it weakens at all over the course of 25 years?
(2) I have seen conflicting data on how effective Valtrex is in preventing transmission. If I take it every day (which I have been doing for about a year) and do not have any symptoms of outbreaks, how likely is it that the virus could be transmitted asymptomatically, both with and without the use of condoms in addition to the Valtrex? Do you have a link for the most recent study on this? I think the U of Washington conducted a good study on this within the past few years, but I can't find the data online right now.
Thanks for your good work.