I found out a alittle over a year ago that I had contracted genital herpes II from having unprotected sex with a partner. A while after that, I met my current boyfriend with whom I just celebrated a year anniversary with. I was honest with him up front and it freaked him out a bit at first. Except for 2 times, he's always used a condom during sex. He would rather not, but he does. I've had very few outbreaks. Sometimes, I'm even sure it's a herpes outbreak at all. I've tried to do research but there's so many different views and opinions. Basically, I can deal with him using a condom....but I really enjoy oral sex from a guy....I have a difficult time reaching orgasm during vaginal sex. He wants to but he's afraid to. How likely is it that he would contract herpes from performing oral sex on me when no symptoms are visible? How likely is it that he would get it from me during vaginal sex without condom? I want to discuss it with him, but I'd like to have some info to back me up