I encourage you to read the herpes handbook at www.westoverheights.com. It has lots of info about herpes in it.
Yes you can transmit herpes without obvious lesions present.
grace
I know you can't cure herpes. But he doesn't have an outbreak or whatever you call it and no symptoms right now. I read you can only spread it if you have an outbreak. So I'm confused.
Anyway, thank you for your answer. I am visiting a doctor today so I hope I'll have more answers soon.
A blood test at this point isn't going to be of much use to you.
did you see your provider and get this examined and get any testing done other than a blood test?
You absolutely can not cure herpes. If your bf has herpes then he has it for life and can transmit it to you at any time.
grace