I was tested last fall for everything and was clear. I've been with the same guy for a year and about 10 days ago, I woke up feeling very tired and a little queazy. Later that day, I had just a pinch of pain when wiping; this felt like a small tear from sex. Over the next 7 days, the "tear" continued to be painful, and didn't seem to be healing. I tried peroxide, a vinegar rinse, and even baking soda, but all that developed was Yeast. I went to a clinic yesterday, and the Dr. said that the "tear" looked to be an initial outbreak, but she wasn't 100% sure. She said she would do a culture and I would have the results in a week but that I was already 10 days in, so the culture may be inconclusive.
I obviously would prefer this to not be Herpes, and I don't like the idea of more waiting. Here's my question: If I've been with the same man for over a year, why would I only just now have an outbreak? Could this be something else? Today is day 11 since I noticed the "tear" and things are looking much better although there is still a pinch of pain at the same site.