No one here can take a guess at this,you absolutely need to go back to your Doctor and tell him your problem is not resolving and you want it followed up, it could any one of a number of things.
See your Doctor and explain fully what is going on with you .....
Daisy
i appreciate the help but i know its not shaving. it is extreme discomfort with piercing itching and red pimple like bumps popping up here and there and even a black head on my shaft 3 times. from what i read herpes can vary per person. id love to think its not but it has to be something. does anyone have suggestions of possible alternatives to what it can be. remember it came after oral sex.
it's highly unlikely that you have herpes once you've been tested and came out negative. if you shave around the genital area then that's it.
Herpes would not give you all this trouble on a daily basis nor would it have shown up so soon after the event.
I suggest you ask your Doctor to follow this up due to the discomfort you are in all the time,there is something causing it and it may time a little time to sort out it's a process of elimination until the source is found i'm afraid,but I doubt very much if Herpes is the culprit.
Daisy