i slept with a guy about a week ago and i dont know if he is infected or not, we did use a condom. i know i read that symptoms start anywhere from 2-20 days. i havent had any blisters, i do have what looks like a pimple, its just one, and its right below my belly button at the top of my underwear. i have been having alot of pelvic pain and it is red down there but i cant see a doctor for another week, and i need some info now so my ques is, can i have herpes without having blisters or is the start of pelvic pain when the blisters come? it doesnt hurt to pee, no headache or fever and it doesnt itch. anyone have any advice?