You know what your right! I'm so sick and tired being worried about this. It has taken over my life and I can't feel this way anymore. Marking the calendar right now and leaving this alone for now. Again, thank you for your help and your knowledge!
You will see and feel that it has gone from pea size (which is pretty normal) to something bigger like a grape or walnut. Malignant lumps tend to be hard and painless.
Your doctor probably didn't see a need for an ultrasound or scan since you don't have any other symptoms that resemble lymphoma and you did have symptoms that point to infection.
My advice to you is to write on your calendar when 3 months has passed since your last appointment and if by then, if it doesn't go away, call your doctor and see about doing an ultrasound or needle biopsy.
Thanks AGAIN! How will I know if it's getting bigger? Will it harden? Become more fixed? Will it become more visible? Sorry I know these questions sound ridiculous, but I am confused from all the information I've read online. Isn't it odd that the dr didn't order an ultrasound or a ct scan or at least draw some blood? My wife thinks I'm making this a bigger deal then it is.
Lymph nodes can take a long time to go back down and sometimes they never go back down completely. It is possible that you have built up some scar tissue within the node. I think your doctor said wait a few months to see what happens and I think I'd be comfortable waiting that out unless it becomes very obvious that it is getting bigger. Cancer is an accumulation of malignant cells so if it isn't getting bigger then that is a good sign.
Also, I only feel the node when I rotate my head completely to the opposite side. If I'm looking straight forward I cannot feel it. Does that make sense? So confused right now.
Good morning Mocha,
As you can see I am back. I had a really bad night. Even after the visit with the ENT I am still worried about this swollen node. Its been almost a month and it's still there. The ingrown hair is 95% better. I was online reading and read so many thing that scarred me again. I don't know what to do at this point. Should I be comfortable and accept what the ENT said or should I move forward and demand a biopsy? Sometimes I feel the node has gotten smaller and other times I think it's gotten bigger :( sure does not help that I constantly poke and squeeze at it all day. Should I leave it alone for a month and see what happens? Or should I demand a biopsy? Pls any advise would be highly appreciated AGAIN.