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Shrinking Penis

I have posted here before, but I feel that I must be persistent.  I am 29 years old, and have been impotent for about 2 years now.  2 years ago, I was absolutely fine.  I could have sex as many times as I wanted to.  3 times a night would be no problem.  I woke up with erections, and if I didn't have sex I would masturbate in the morning and before I went to bed.  

It is a different story now however.  No morning wood.  No libido.  If I am able to get an erection it doesn't last long.  Visual stimuli has no effect, I have to use my hand and that doesn't work very well.  When flacid, my penis is smaller now.  The skin feels different--less sensitive.  I see veins where I couldn't see any before.  When I walk around, it feels like I don't even have a penis anymore.  It feels like nothing is there.  As a result of this I have lost my girlfriend, my confidence in life, and I think I am losing my mind.  Oral drugs don't help.  

I've been to urologists at an ivy leage teaching hospital. He basically said 'that's life' and showed me penis pumps.  I really don't know why I am typing this message, as I don't think there is anything anyone can really do.  I am beyond the point of losing hope.  I quite honestly do not want to live like this anymore.  

My only questions are:
a.  Why & how did this happen?
b.  Is there any way to fix it?

If you know a doctor, please forward this to him/her because I really need help.  Thank you.
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hiya guys, im 30 years old and had a motor bike accident 7 yrs ago which left me in a wheel chair but about 3-4 years ago my penis started getting smallier and now it has gone there is just skin there, i find it very hard to get a hard on and if i do its not big innuff to do anything with it, can someone please help,
heres my email, ***@****
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Okay, so I'm 16 and until my sixteenth birthday, I was sexually active on a very regular basis, at 6.4 inches of penis. However, come my 16th birthday, I've shrunk almost an inch, and my penis is almost always leaking some form of discharge from the glands. My sex drive is gone, and I'm not ever horny now and when I ejaculate I have very little sperm ejaculating, along with a lot of clear discharge. I don't have a sexually transmitted disease and I always used to use a condom, before It stopped getting hard when it was meant to. It now only becomes erect when I am unwilling fo it to be erect. Help please?
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Ok not sure if anyone is reading this blog anymore.

Its 6 am been up all night stressed out about the size of my penis being a lil under 5 inches when erect. This happened a year and a half ago when i took a bad combination of cialis daily 5 mg and monster energy drink to be able to have an erection at a night club while dancing not even for sex. My penis became too hard ad aroused and then i rushed to the bathroom to unzip and see a lil blood lump forming just below the head and then a sharp pain followed. The lump went away in a few days but ever since that day i right away noticed that my penis was smaller by 3 inches or more. I used to be a 8 now a 5 barely  This happened Year and a half ago when i got on the cialis daily.
Im 35 yrs old right  now When i hit 30 i felt so tired all the time and for the last 5 yrs ive been dealing with really low energy levels and erectile dysfunction. Im a good looking guy but cant date because of this problem and to make things worse now i have a tiny penis. One woman said is that it. Sometimes women try to grab me around that area with my clothes on but dont find much there and it turns them off. In this highly sexual society i have no idiea how to survive.
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I'm havin the same problem my scrotum is always tight my penis feels lifeless and it will not get a proper erection  and it has gotten  a lot smaller I'm freakin ou
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Ok man I was good about 2days ago I had no problems getting erection but now my penis just will not get hard I'm not getting aroused as much and it's really tripping me out my penis feels lifeless and I feel hopeless
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Please am 24 and just developed this same problem. I had sex the previous night and I couldn't go the second time because me penis didn't get the deserved erection. Soon later on, the next day, I couldn't feel it, no erection, and its like 2 days now, my penis has shrunked, to a small size, like that of a kid.
I am confused now, reading previous post, I also have belly fats and been involved in some alcohol this xmas period. What do I do. I really need solution
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