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Too much porn/masterbation cause ED?

I caught my husband m. but the only bad thing is it was like 1 to 2hrs. after we just made love. we have never had a problem b/c we like to try new things and have fun doing so.. but I also found out that he watches a lot of porn on his cell phone and the internet at home when I am not around. he spends a lot of time in the bathroom. the last time we made love he didn't want to try anything new he wanted me to stay on one spot b/c he was having a problem staying erected. nothing I did helped he just stayed semi. erected but and hour or two afterwards he was m and watching porn on his phone in the living room and had a great erection. what am I to do? he say its not me it's just something that all men do its life. Please help.
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Hi Flower, What can I say, ok try this from what you say then he is having a big problem with ED, and I think you will find out its porn enduced ED, but you need to get to say I have a problem with it, this will clear the air to start the ball rolling, now his only way out is to do an 8 week sabbatical of no masturbating or sexual contact with you and no porn, he must clear his compter, and his phone of all sites and anything he has on discs just throw them away, all this will go towards rebooting his system, not a lot else I know on but that, but it seems to work as no ones come back and said it didn't work for them, and its gone out a lot of times.
Good Luck
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Hi Flower, OK men and porn do go together, but there is a cut off line for most of us, one thing for it, is that its a great libido lifter, but are far as watching it for hours and masturbating to it, then thats the sick part, but lots of men do it and lots of men end up with porn enduced ED, and its hard for some men to admit it even when we are trying to help them, but there is a patern for men and boys who are doing it, and in the end most will admit it.
But its best if you as well as him both like it, and then both watch it and play along with it, makes saturday night veiwing a bit better, and no advert breaks just sex, but thats if you like that sort of thing, I'm sure you could wear him out and make him weak at the knees and spent.
Can you do that before you walk out, and make him just keep it to that once a week, along with all the really bad stuff out there is some thats passable as being good.
But the ball is in your court.
Good Luck  
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Thank you so much for your comment. I have talked to him but he said that its not me its normal and all men do it. Is that true? I could be laying in the bed ready and willing to do it (whatever he wants) but he will wait until I go to sleep and m/p. I feel like walking away. He puts that 1st.
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