Too much porn/masturbation cause ED?

[maxcheang]

Hi I m a 28 year old and suffer some degree of ED in recent. I start masturbated since I m 19 and usually use porn as a form of visual stimiulation. I have observed that I have lost the ability to maintain erect during intercource or I only get weak erection. My question is: does masturbation in association with porn will "exhaust" my interest towards sex and create a negative impact on my ability to get aroused in real sex? I m worried cause I think I m still young to have physical cause  for ED. Any thought?

[worried_n_frustraed]

Hello everyone.
I have been masterbating since i was about 10yrs old. most of the time i have found myself masterbating anywhere from 5-8 times a day. most days its was unheard of of me not doing it at least twice. Of course i have looked at porn and fantazied constanly for pretty much as soon as i started. I am married and have been for 4 yrs now. The porn issue is a HUGE issue between me and my wife and I am currently trying to stop. So far it has been a month but my masterbation has not stopped. Now it has become an issue.

normally i could masterbate a few time wait an hour or two then have sex for about 20-40 mins. And i never had any issue gaining an erection. But this morning around 0330 my wife come into bed and we start to play. I gained my erection but everytime we would move into a new position or stoped for a few seconds I would lose it. And of course i was accused of masterbating to porn as usual. But the thing was the last time i masterbated was over 12 hours ago since im also trying to slow down or even better stop masterbating at all.

I have had episodes where i have been not sexually active (neither masterbating or actual sexual intercourse) for a few weeks to months and afterwards had a huge sexual appitite. Do you think if i went on a hiatus again that I would be alright.

[NPH]

132 days without P&M and I've flatlined the last 7 days. I can only describe it as dead ****. It's like there's nothing down below. Morning wood has stopped too. The recovery is not linear by any means. Just a few weeks ago my sex drive was surging... Now its lifeless. I'm still having sex with my girlfriend but I'm not fully recovered yet. I will stay positive :)

[h0ward]

15 days no P, 7 days no M. Feeling fantastic.

[TomDG]

i posted this months ago september 2011


Ok, So something very odd has happened to me lastnight. I was getting real!! intimate with this girl, and i had a problem get an erection, at one point i did and i had a problem keeping it. i tried to think of stuff that may had affected me, like me masturbating that day a couple times, and taking a couple shots of vodka. now i don't think those should really affect me seeing that I am a 19 years old. i read that alcohol could cause such problem but I'm not sure. there points where i got hard from just fingering and going down on her but just couldn't keep it. please tell why this has happened and how i could prevent it again and ways to may increase my sexual drive.
now after this happened to me i went 2 weeks with out watching porn or masturbating and then one day had a wet dream like i woke up and i orgasimed like i had passionate sex or something
couple days later istarted to masterbate again like i did before and have had any sexual intercourse since then now i have a steady girlfriend and we ready to start having sex but im worried the same thing may happen again and another thing i notice is that when i put on a condom i find it reall easy to lose my erection

[for_one_more_day]

thx bro :) well english is not my first language to LOL

btw, how about having sex with others during this 86 days?

[sayno2porn]

Yes I was totally off from PMO for 86 days. I think you have to stop M if you want to recover soon.
My goal was not 3 months my goal was real sex where i can sex like a real MAN and I DID IT. I'm not going back to P&M again because I'm not a loser anymore, i'm totally changed now. i'm not nervous anymore in front of girls.

If you have really strong feeling to recover then its not that difficult to abstain.When you are online and you accidentally looking up on porn then you just have to do is close that tab....thats it..its that simple. But I know that sometimes the urge is so strong that its really hard to resist but whenever you are doing M and watching P just think that what if you were out of your body and watching yourself doing M&P, how you feel then? i bet it'll look stupid. I came to realize that watching porn is actually a stupid thing..what is the point in it  to watching others doing sex or some bizarre things? ..what is that?. it is immature behavior. when you realize this then it'll not difficult to control yourself ..believe me.

sorry for my english if i did a mistake because its not my first language.