It has been many years since this happened to me but I can say you must ensure there is plenty of natural juices prior to penetration or add lube. Deffinately take heed to the advice being offered as I did not and I paid the price for being over amourous.
My tearing continued and resulted in the tear changing direction and openning up a wound into the head of my penis, I ended up in surgery where the connective tissue to the foreskin required cutting and worst of all 6 stitches in the head of my penis.
If memmory serves me the connective tissue is called the fenulum and cutting this tissue allows the foreskin to retract fully but you DO NOT WANT THE PAIN I experienced. LET IT HEAL PROPERLY!!!!
dont have sex in water its not a good idea. have sex some where romantic like a bed filled with confetti and candles. not the bath it hurts! not just you but your partner two. remeber ask her for a **.
Hi Kevin,
I'm no expert in the matter, or in any medical feild at all lol. But I will say, Protection and Lubrication are the two major parts of physically safe sex. Grab you a small bottle of KY sensitive or Astroglide as well as condoms that fit you and your personal preference. I have found that generally, having sex in water is not a good idea as the water erodes away the natural lubrication being produced during sex. If lube or condoms arent a preference of yours (ex; you get married) Then erotic foreplay should get things nice and slippery, which will be more comfortable for the both of you. This may be an overly invasive question but are you circumcised? That may also have something to do with whats going on. There are many factors. Give the wound time to heal. After that, if plenty of lube or a lubricated condom or both dont work, I would suggest consulting your doctor, If not contact him right now! Like I said, I am no expert and this is just advice from one person to another.
she's probably isn't getting wet enough. just saying. maybe you should get ky jelly