help! groin injury problem

[ladieslovejoey]

I posted something a few days ago about what happened to me, but nobody answered. I need help. I don't know what to do. Our football team has a massage therapist, and he diagnosed me with a groin injury, but the treatment is the worst: he hits pressure points in my groin: meaning in the sacks that hold my testicles. The proceedure is super embarassing especially because it makes me get a erection. I already put up a post about it. Can anyone help me? He says if I don't keep letting him do these treatments I won't be able to play for the rest of the season, or I'll need a painful treatment with needles in my penis. What should I do? I've been losing sleep over this!

[ladieslovejoey]

Bro, thanks! I feel a little better to know that being nervous could makes people ejaculate or get erect. Your are probly right that the massage thrapist is lying to me, but I trusted him because he works on my whole team and my coach said he work on him too for a groin injury. I thought it made sense before because the groin is right by my testicles and he said the pressure points were around my penis that the nerves go all the way up to the penis and that the injury made a bad chemical get produced in my groin to be released in ejaculation after the squeezing the pressure points. Now I feel so stupid to believe him, SO ANGRY. Do you think its normal to get hard now when I think about it? I'm disgusted and angry but it happens almost every time I think about it. Am I going crazy? I cant tell anyone I know. I would die. My girlfriend keeps asking me whatts wroing, but I cant tell her a man man me ejaculate. And more than once! If I told a court, they would blame me, say if you don't want it why you go back. Its good that you stopped that doctor. I wish I did. I wish I could forget it but I keep thinking about it have nightmares and ejacualte in the middle of the dream. I feel like Im losing control of my body.

[rmprdl1964]

Only you can decide this for yourself.
I just think that this treatment is unacceptable.
I suffer from ED nd had been seeing a urologist for this. For the first few years I had to inject myself to obtain an erection.
On one of my axaminations the urologist was feeling my penis to see if there was any scar tissue as the result of the injections. I must have had a puzzeled look on my face as he was doing so. He stopped and told me that he was going to get a nurse to be in the room with us since he did not want me to get the wrong impression. I trust this urologist and know that I don't have to worry about anything that should not take place is going to happen.
Due to a neurogenic bladder I also have been going for Cystoscopies to look inside my bladder. This is done by using a scope inserted into the penis and bladder. Again all urologists have been very proffessional and allways had nurses or other staff there to help with the procedure. When I had my very first procedure, I got a partial erection out of nervousness while the nurses were cleaning my penis. I did not think that this would have happened at all. Again this was handeled proffessionaly and they waited untill the erection subsided.
I do not think that the procedure of the therapist is normal. He should have had some one else there to ensure you that nothing out of the ordinary was taking place.

Yes an erection can result out of nervousness. I was just 24 when I had my first procedure. For other procedures I have also asked if my wife could be present during the procedure.

In no way should there be any involvement of the scrotum, testicles or penis during this procedure.

Go with your gut instinct, if it does not seem right to you than it is not. Stimmulation and nervousness can result in an erection and possibly ejeculation.

All the best.

Ron

[ladieslovejoey]

What should I do? Some people say to just relax and let him the massage therapist for my team do the tratment to my testilces even thou he hypnotizes me and I ejaulate. Other people say to call the police or tell somebody. I am realy angry if I let myself think he tricked me. But I cant prove it. I just want to stop thinking about this but I cant.
Help!

[ladieslovejoey]

Yo Ron. I appreciate you education  me. I never
met a gay person & I didn't know you can change from straight to gay. The whole thing is so confusing me. Like I dont understad how a guy touching my balls even gets me so hard. I couldnt sleeping last night after read you post. My dad says sometimes Im as dumb as a log, even though Im good at football. I Shold never let him masage with my balls. Now when I think about it I get SO angry but them my penis gets big at same time. I dont no what to do. I can never tell no one I know. Maybe I ask him to hipnotize me to forget what happen so I can sleep & go back to normal.

[rmprdl1964]

I also forgot to mention my wife's nephew who had a relationship with a girl for 5 years and than very recently suddenly anounced that he is gay. While he was in his teen years and early 20's he never showed any signs. The relationship with him and his girlfriend seemed very serious and they had been living together for the 5 years that they had.

All the best.

Ron

[rmprdl1964]

Hi,

Just because he is married and has children does not mean that he is not bi-sexual or gay.
Sadly some married males are gay. We knew a friend of ours who was about to get married to this guy, but just before they were to get married she found out that he was involved in a gay relationship. She only discovered this by accident when her brother answered the phone while they were over at his place. Apparently the peron on the phone thought that he was talking to the guy that she was about to marrie.
After this relationship ended she was fortunate enough to marrie a man who truly loves her. They have been married for 16 years now.

[ladieslovejoey]

Hey Ron, thanks for your advice. I was worried abou the same thing when the massage therpist tell me he had to rub around my testicles for so long but he told me about his wife, and I met her in person. She is real cool & pretty. He showed me pictures of his kids. So I know hes not gay. I just started to relax more and let him do the proceedure and I think my groin is starting to heal and I can walk better, and I'm playing on our football team again. I still hate letting a guy touch my privates but when he hypnotizes me it doesnt bother me as much and he says I only need a couple more treatments. If I was to believe what you saying that he isn't a real doctor, why would he work on my whole football team? I would never tape what he does to me! YOu cant imagine how embarassing it is that I get hard and ejaculate. I would never let anyone see this guy making me shoot *** everywhere. No way.  I can't believe its not real thats worse to think about than what I've been having to deal with with these terrible treatments. If that was true, I would take care of it myself, no cops.

[rmprdl1964]

Hi,

I think that you should bring this to the attention for law enforcement or the director of your school.

Is there anyway that you can have a small tape recorder put some place in a bag or clothig some how to record what transpires.

I have had numerous injuries to my groin, penis and scrotum and have had to get help from doctors, physiotherapists and nurses.

I used to come down with orchitis and epidymitis as well as other conditions involving the groin. At about the frequency of ever 3 to 4 months.

I currenly have a catheter in that needs to be changed every month.

At times I have had doctors, nurses touch my penis or scrotum. Most of the times this was very short of duration. Example needing to get the catheter changed. The old catheter is removed, my penis is cleaned and the new catheter is put in. The whole process not taking any longer than 15 minutes. The oly time that I have had prolonged touching was after I had an emergency orchietomy (removal of my left testicle due to an infection). I needed to have the scrotum packed with saline soaked gauze everey 4 hours. Even then it was kept to a minimum.

I had one occation where I needed to get my suprapubic catheter cheked. There was a male doctor that was there as a locum doctor. The suprapubic is located between my penis and belly button, just on top of my bladder. This doctor proceded by lifting the waist band of my underwear, lifting my penis and place his hand on my scrotum. I forcefully move his hand and asked for one of the nurses. I told the head of the hospital and I have not seen this doctor since.

I do not know of any treatment of the groin where this type of touching to the point of ejeculation is needed. I think that this so calle male thereapist has other motives.
This man needs to be punished for his behaviour. I assume that this man might be gay.

Nothing you have done is your fault, I'm convinced that this man preys on males under his care. If you can record on tape any conversation that this man might have with you.

Tell the officials, police if you can.

Let me know if I can be of help somehow and keep me posted please?

All the best.

Ron

[solace21]

Hi,
   Frankly speaking, I also am not sure about the motives of the therapist.But, since I do not know anything about the techniques used and the person has been employed by the team, I did not want to cast any doubts into your mind.That is why I thought you should keep the coach informed of the situation, so that he could advise you correctly. Do not bother about talking to your coach about all these, because there is nothing wrong done by you. At the same time, being a coach, he is responsible for the team, and his guidance will be in the right direction. Alternatively, you could as well talk to your father and get your condition assessed by a urologist. All that you may need is a course of antibiotics.
Solace  

[ladieslovejoey]

Thanks for the answer! I been trying to relax and to not worry abut getting a errection when I get the massage like you said but I'm WAY too embrassed about the treatment and what happens to my body to tell the coach or anybody from my fraterity. I get SUPER uncomfrotable cause he keeps massaging around my testicles for a long time until I get hard and ejaculate. The only way I can deal with how uncomfrable it is is by letting him hypnotize me so I relax and cant move. He say its important to release the toxins from the injury when I ejaculate at the end of the procedure for my groin to heal right. I did it now twice and I think its helping my injury a little. But I still cant walk too good and cant run. Is this normal? Has anyone else had this treatment? Im thinkin about dropping out of football, and cause I'm on a schorlship I might have to leave school. The part I HATE the most is letting a guy do that to me. He said no girls are trained to do this yet and that this is my only hope. He calls it wholistic therapy. Does anyone know about this and if I can get a female who does it?

[solace21]

Hi,
    You do not have to feel embarassed just because of erection, provided, the procedure he follows is the correct one and that solves your groin injury. However, as you rightly thought, discuss with your coach and get his consent regarding the procedure followed. Just do not worry about erection problem, as it is a sensitive part and responds to human touch.
Solace