Jim, It's not the masturbation! It's your friend being there and you knowing he's watching or even knowing what you're doing. It's all in your head!! nothing wrong with your penis.
checked the side effects for my medication noting there would cause this problem.
HERES THE REAL STORY
last summer a friend of mine asked me if i wanted to have a threesome with him and his wife.at first i said no,but his wife really,really,really turns me on and after about a week of talking about it , i gave in.it was very awquerd with him there. its his wife but hes telling me to do it, then i got the nerve to kiss her one night in my spa and it was amazing, it was on we were going at it like wild animals.i want her so bad and she wants me, its soooooo..... frustrating we've tried five times now and i just cant keep an erection long enough to make either one of us happy.the last time i didnt drink anything all day and the samething happend.its very frustating and embarising,i cant give her what shes asking me for and she thinks something is wrong with her and i feel like less of a man.im scared that mabye i masterbated to much and now ill never be able to have sex or mabye its because hes there.i dont know what to do, i just know that i have to compleate the act, she is the most amazing women ive ever been with.
Jim, Ask your doctor if the anti siezure medication can cause your sexual problem also
drinking can cause your problem. Have you had a medical checkup? Don't take the information from babanachiket first take my suggestion. "penile exercise" do you mean Kegel exercises for men? if you do then google it
what is penile exercise and how do you do it
i take anti siezure medication and im not in the greatest shape but not over weight.i do smoke and drink everyday.i now its not good and im trying to stop.when im with her i feel like my penis is decensatized.this is very embarising.
HI,
The reason you are not maintaining is that you are mentally not turned on AND your penis is not used to stay erect for longer time. just relax and think that women are hot and its fun to have sex. within 6 weeks of penile exercise you ll be back in pavilion.
oh dont forget to massage your penis with warm sesame seed oil (just massage, not masturbae)
Baba
It could be any number of things! You don't say how your health is what medication if any you're on. Are you a Diabetic, what shape you're in, during sex what going on in your head
give us some more information. Do you have foreplay?