4th miscarriage dont know how much i can take with no answers :(

[jleelynn]

Im 29yr old and have been trying for a baby for the last few yrs.. ive lost 4babys all together and my last 2 just in this last yr and this most recent one has broke my heart and has made me believe theres no hope left for me... just need some one to talk to :(

[sls1655]

I am so sorry  I am new to this forum but just had a missed miscarriage - it was dragged out nd now I'm terrified too. But don't give up hope. You are very young and have lots of time on your side :)

[dscoqn]

Hi, I've had 5 miscarriages and 4 ectopics and no explanation as to why. It's frustrating and sad but I have tried to remain positive.  You have time on your side (I'm 36) so if you feel like you can handle it keep trying - eventually one has to stick right?  I'm so sorry for your losses and understand how you are feeling xx

[jleelynn]

Thank you so much for getting back to my post .. i think its just so hard knowing how bad i wanted it once its there .... then ive bonded with it .. "dont you think even after 1,2,3 or 4 or even in VDKALVR's case 6 you think its not going to keep happening dont you"... May be next time i wont bond with it and see what happens.
Just wish i could and other women like your selfs have answers then maybe we could do something about it and it wouldnt keep happening but thats life aguess ..... stay intouch girls and thanks again xx

[tara2010]

I understand how you must feel. I too have had 4 miscarriages without any explaination has to why this keeps happening to me. And I have still to have no answers. It makes me not even want to even try to have another bc i dont want to go through the pain of loosing another child. I tired not to attach myself to the last one but i got so far along that i started to reattach myself thinking it would make it. I cant give you much advice on how to deal with it bc as you can see i havent dealt with it myself. I hope things work out for you and you have a successful pregnancy

[VDKALVR]

I feel your pain, I have had 6 mc in the past with no answers as to why.  I lucked up and finally have a sticky bean, but all I can say is things affect people differently.  For me I didnt let it get to me, maybe its because after so many I learned not to attatch myself to the pregnancy, so that when loss occured it wasnt so hard on me.  I basicially have the reasoning that everything happens for a reason, whether we know why it does or does not happen.  Thats been my motto anyway.  I am truly sorry for your loss, but have some faith in yourself you will overcome this.