Am i having a miscarriage

[Mama2four1234]

Hi, im almost 6wks pregnant and started bleeding a day and half ago, it not really heavy or not enough to fill a pad. I had really bad cramps with it. Im really scared that im having a miscarriage, went to the hospital lastnight and they couldnt give me a scan, they said the scan clinic was closed! But they did a preg test and it was positive, but the hormone can stay in you're system for up to 1wk after miscarriage. I had a miscarriage before and know what its like, and the bleeding was much heavier then and i lost clots. But i really worried i dont want to lose this one, i really wanted another baby. The bleeding has slowed down and the cramps have gone. I have a scn tomorrow so fingers crossed everyone. Im praying its all good news i really do, dont think i could handle anothert miscarriage.

[udbe2]

I'm ss to hear that you had some bad news.  It is tough telling others especially your kids since they will probably not understand what happened too.   I was hoping that your situation would be like another persons who the dr told her she was m/c'ing however she is now 10 wks pregnant.  

You are sooooo right on the not breaking you but making you statement.  I suppose that is what keeps me going.  Each time I get pregnant I tell myself not to get excited or tell anyone until I know things are going good but it's so hard not to get excited.  

It is good to allow your body time to heal along with your heart.  You'll never forget but I'm sure the next pregnancy will be a healthy one for you.  

Remember we are not only here to support those who are going through hard times but also to provide support while ttc.  I'm here for you if you need me.  

[Mama2four1234]

Hi, i had some bad news, i have miscarried. I am upset and wondering why, but i cant let it get me down, for the sake of the other children. Ofcourse i'll never forget, but i have to be strong. I would like to try again, but will leave it for a while as my body needs time, and so do i. I made the mistake of telling the other children, i should have waited, as i was only 6wks when i miscarried. So when they get back from my mums i will have to tell them, which is not going to be easy, as they were excited. But it wont break us, it can only make us!

Udbe2, you really are a wonderful person after everything you have been through, and being able to carry on and give you're support to others, it will happen one day my sweet, when the time is right it will. Thankyou so so much for you're kind words and you're support. I will be praying for you and keeping everything crossed.

Tjames364, congrats! and thankyou. Really do hope and pray all goes well with this pregnancy.

Godbless you all xoxo

[udbe2]

I hope that you get some great news today.  I'll be praying for you.   It sometimes is hard however I tell people that after so many that you become numb to the whole experience of losing them.  The hardest thing with mine is when I get pregnant I'm so excited especially after getting a few blood test back and they are good numbers only to have them plummet or plato.  I feel one day I may get lucky or blessed as some would like to say to have a pregnancy go to term.   Until that time I can only offer support to others and be happy when things turn out great for them.  

I'll be checking in here during the day so when you get the news I will look for the post.  

[TJames364]

Hi,

I'm so sorry to hear about your previous loss.  I hope you get some good news today.

I had a chemical pregnancy in April so I know how you feel.  I'm currently 8 weeks now and I was able to see a heartbeat at 6 weeks.

Good Luck!!!

[Mama2four1234]

Hi there, im so sorry to hear that! it must be really hard for you hun. I had my scan and they saw something but could not see the sack, they said it could be because everything is still very tiny, But they have done a blood test and i should get the results by 2ish today, really hope its good news. I to will keep you in our prayers my sweet, god bless and take care xx

[udbe2]

It's hard to tell without blood test to see what they BHCG is doing and a scan to see if cervix is closed or starting to open.   I'll keep you in my prayers that everything turns out fine for you tomorrow and you get good news.  

I know how you feel about having a m/c.  I've had 7 with no live births so each time I get pregnant and start to bleed I feel like crawling into a hole and praying for good news when things start going bad.