I lost the baby

[Crystal520]

We went to the ER yesterday after I woke up feeling like my period was starting. The cramping and bleeding kept getting worse. They did a 2nd beta which dropped by half of the first one (64 to 39) and the doctor did a pelvic exam and said my cervix is opening and I'm passing clots. We are very sad since we have been trying for 2 years. I think what makes this all a little easier is I wasn't that far along (5 weeks) and I only knew I was pregnant for a little over a week. Luckily my husband has been able to be home from work these last couple of days so he can be with me during this tough time. Physically I'm feeling a little better, they gave me some pain medicine to take at home. Emotionally I know it will take time to feel better. We are hopeful for when we start trying again because now we know I can get pregnant.

[dollyy245]

hi im really sorry for your lose i completely know how you feel u will never ger over a miscarriage me and my partner tryed for over a year and then it happend but ended in m/c i was 8and half weeks so 2 and half months it will always be at the back of your head wondering was it something you done? was there something wrong? would it of been a boy girl? and u just cant find the answers there will be another time for you just give your body a few months to strengthen and heal phisiclly and emotionally then try again me and my patner are trying its been 4 months since i lost mine and no luck yet but i got to a spiritulist church and my baby came thru to me she was telling me its safe it has made me feel so much better also there is a man and woman in spirit world taking care of it for me so if you belive in things like this maybe u should try going to something like it to put your mind at ease it helped me alot. sending lots of baby dust your way xxx

[Isitmyturnyet]

Crystal same boat as u - we tried for so long then it finally happened, but ended in m/c at 13 weeks...heart broken but have hope for better tomorrows..

[Crystal520]

Thank you for your reply :)

[madgeOwens]

I don't think you ever really get over a miscarriage. Atleast I never have, and its been 20 years now.
Im so sorry for your loss.  

My neice had 5 or 6 miscarriages until they discoverda growth ofsome kind in her uterus. Once the benign growth was removed,k she got pregant and now has a 2 year old son. So just make sure they check you thoroughly. I wish you luck, God Bless!