don't understand?

[angeleyes79]

l went for a ultrasound on the 28/08/09 when l went in with the nurse into the first room she did a vaginal scan and told me that there was a sac but no baby inside she said she would try to look longer to see if she could find anything, she then went on to say that it looks like a early pregnancy that is why the baby looks small about 6 weeks but also added that she would like me to have another vaginal scan in another room as the machine was better there and would like another colleague present at that time, so they started to do the vaginal scan and still could not get a image so she told me to put my hands under my bum which l did that did not work and then got some type of padding and tried to put it under my bum but got it only halfway and the nurse doing the scan was holding my right side so they could do a scan, every time they moved that pipe they kept lifting my right side and l felt they only was checking the right side not anywhere else they did not show me the screen in any of the rooms but told me that the baby was 9 weeks old and had stopped growing and there was no sign of a heartbeat l told them that l could feel movement but she strongly disagree and told me that was not possible l was scheduled to go and have the baby removed on the 01/09/09 but l cancelled the app and spoke to my family about this, and they said as l have no signs of bleeding or cramps or pain that l should get a second opinion as l can feel movement and my belly is growing what should l do?

[in_memory_of_weston]

really sorry for your loss i hope you get prego again soon...goodluck and lots of love and baby dust~*~*~*~*we are ttc right now ill let you know<3

[angeleyes79]

thank you for all your support it really has meant alot to me and for the baby dust but l had to go to A&E cause l started bleeding and monday eveinig and they told me that they would do another scan but then refused the next moring so l had a private scan done the same day and it comfirmed that the baby has died at 9 weeks after l came home l started bleeding heavily and l lost the baby in the toilet last night, like l said l would keep my faith in god good or bad news, it just was not meant not to be maybe god did not want this baby to come and that is a good enough reason for me but l hope and pray that l have a baby in the near future for my kids sake as they were really upest as l was but all happens for the best once again thank you very much please let me know if you had any more children and if not l will pray you aswell lots of love and god bless  

[in_memory_of_weston]

you are very welcome ..yes please let me know and i really do hope you get what you but if not all you can do is trust the good lord above he will make it happen if its meant to be ...all the love and baby dust you deserve~*~*~*~*

[angeleyes79]

thank you so much for your kind words and advice they would always be close to my heart l could never feel offended by someone who is giving me comfort for both good and bad news, l am very sorry for your loss and what you had to go through l think god has made us women stronger for things like this and yes it is very hard to get over but with the help from your family and friends it does make a difference l also had a miscarriage in 2000 but l knew it was over l could feel it from my heart l then went on to have a healthy baby girl in 2002 but this time my heart disagree and said that my baby is going to make it l have put all my faith into god and wait for the outcome and whatever it is l will accept but sometimes you must believe to make things happen my family strongly the way l do but til l dont have a second scan l will not know once again thank you for your support and l will let you know how things got on    

[in_memory_of_weston]

sweetheart i know what your going through and i know it would be hard to think that this is happening to you. you should get another opinnion just to be safe but from what you said sweeetie i dont want to give you false hope so im going to be strait with you ...most of the time they would be able to see something and pick up a heartbeat since you were 9 weeks and they couldnt then chances are that you have had a mc... i know its hard to realize ...i just gave birth to my son at 15 weeks and its still hard from day to day...you will never get over but you will get through it with help and suport from your freinds and family...if your like you like to be told the truth and have anything sugarcoated ....i also thought i felt movement and things even after i lost the i could feel things ...atleast you found out from your doctor i went to the er 4 days b4 i gave birth and they said everything was fine but my doc said the baby was already gone cause i was suppose to almost 18 weeks when i had him so hes was gone 3 weeks b4 that he measured as 15 weeks...sweetie i just want to say how sorry i am and if everything is fine then ignor everything i said....and i hope i didnt offend you or anything by what i said ..i hope all as well and that you do go on to have a healthy pregnancy...goodluck and lots and lots of baby dust~*~*~*~*...i hope i was a lil helpful and if you need to talk we are all here for you ...goodluck